My MIL is nasty and says despicable things to me. She’s nasty at the dinner table so I stopped eating dinner with my partner and his mother. I eat in my bedroom. He used to take up for me, but stopped a while back. She’s been living with us for 15 years and gets nastier and nastier. She’s always moving my personal items. It upsets me greatly. I’m debaststed that he won’t do anything about it. Tonight I was determined to get away from this unhealthy life and I told him I wanted to leave the relationship. He was extremely ugly and told me I was to blame because I’m always complaining about her moving my things. I’ve lost my identity. I’m fearful for the first time in life. I do not feel like a whole person .
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It’s good that you’re ready to leave because it’s way past time.
I would have divorced 14.5 years ago. Pack your bags and leave. Start thinking about yourself!