this has been an issue for quite some time, though we’ve only been together for four-ish months. i don’t know how to not feel hurt by it. He told me he’s an introvert, which i understand (i am too), but he barely talks to me or shows any affection towards me anymore. we’re long distance, so texting is really the only way we can communicate. he seemed very avoidant when we met up as well, spending a lot of time on his own. I tried to be understanding as we all need our personal space, but I can’t help but feel hurt by this. he has told me (jokingly) that i’m annoying, and now i worry that every time i reach out he finds me annoying, so I don’t even bother anymore. his responses to me are very short and feel like he’s forcing himself to talk to me (on the rare occasions when he actually does). I don’t know what to do, i want to be there for him and i do love him a lot, but i feel like i cant be with someone who barely ever talks to me.
tldr; my boyfriend is an introvert, which i get, but he barely ever talks to me anymore and i can’t not take it personally
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block him. It’s not worth it. I was you once.