As stated in the title but I’ll give some more context just to give you an idea of what I’m talking about. Please don’t mind my English.
Women aren’t allowed to leave the house unless accompanied by a man. I started to cover my face in 5th grade and not allowed to go outside without covering my body head to toe.
My mother got married at 13 year old whilst my dad was in his 30s. She had her first kid of 6 at 16 years old. She was my father’s second wife. Nobody bated an eye, it was normal back then. But it got ingrained in my mom so much that now when looking for girls for my brother (arranged marriage) she suggested my cousin who’s 15 and my brother is 27. When I protested that she’s too young she said it doesn’t matter.
To be fair I have access to the phone and internet while so many other girls don’t have that luxury. I’m not allowed to have social media though, I’ve hidden them from my family but I’ll have dire consequences if they found out.
So much more I can say but I’ll leave it up to you guys to ask anything you feel is important to you.
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Sunderland is a right shit hole by the sounds of it.
Im so sorry to hear that, it must be hard. I admire you lots.
How does it work education wise? Is school optional for women? What about higher education?
Given your current situation what does your future look like?
Do you plan to escape this when you are able? Will you bring kids into it?
Is it afghanistan? Also isn’t that incest, don’t you feel disgusted by it? What about your family member’s views?
Saudi Arabia I guess is the shthol thats being referred to
Is there a reason you’re not saying the name of the place? Is it Morocco?
No offense mate but let me guess? The middle east? Afghanistan?.Are you a Muslim? I’m a Muslim too but lives in Indonesia. It’s not that strict here but it worries me when the government forced hijab on all girls at school from primary school to high school
Are you planning to move out? You really should if you can
What’s your escape plan?
There are people getting exploded in Palestine you’ll be fine
Do you have a plan to escape the place where you’re living? Does your family have an arranged marriage planned for you?
You mentioned that women arnt allowed to leave the house unless accompanied by a man. What if you have an emergency and you need to leave your home and there are no males around you that can help? What would be the consequences of just going off on your own or with another woman and no males?
your comment history is very interesting
What is the main reason in your opinion, religion or family traditions?
Do you have hope that it will be better in the future? Is the younger generation (your age group) going to change things?
You are muslim for sure or from a muslim country. I know some rich muslims who doesn’t practice religious muslim tradition.
Do you think muslim women are happy? Why are you not allowed social media?
I guess it’s Pakistan. Can you move to another city like Lahore where women have more opportunities?
Have any our family have children with deformities to cousin marriages ?
I have heard cousin marriages happen to “keep wealth in the family”. Is this true?
If you could live in another country where would you want to live? And why? What kind of career would you like to have?
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Wow you sure like Roblox. I assume Roblox isn’t considered haram in Pakistan?
Where do u live. Sounds like Saudi Arabian
Islamic country??
Your english is great. I’m really sorry about hearing what you have to say, but thank you for sharing with us.
It’s probably easier said than done but do you have any perspective leaving this place where you’re deprived of your rights ?
I think ur from pakistan or from India with a very old school muslim family and how do u really adjust in such environment and doesn’t female members of ur family just take a stand ?