i’m almost 21 and i’ve never been in a relationship, or had my first kiss, or ever even romantically spoken to a man. this is actually pretty normal for my friend group, but it is really discouraging and i’m starting to wonder if it’s ever gonna happen for me. i did the dating app thing and it just made me feel worse about myself, so now i’m just gonna try traditionally. i’m almost about to graduate college and i’ve become interested in this guy (22m) that is in my program (but a different section of the class). i was thinking of having a year end party since my class is pretty close and we would not see everyone ever again, and that would be the perfect chance to talk to him. he definitely knows who i am as he follows me on a few different social media platforms and we have mutual friends but i’ve never actually spoken to him, so i really want to speak to him at this party. it wont be a huge party prob 15-20 ppl, all ppl i’ve mostly talked to before plus my best friend is coming with me. i’ve also never been to a house party so that’s nerve wracking as well. i need advice on what to say to him/ how to start a conversation and how to make the conversation last/ how to get him to like me. i’m genuinely so nervous to the point where it’s come to me making this post because i’ve never been good at talking to men especially men who i find attractive/like romantically. i need help lmao!!
TL;DR: 21f has never been romantically involved with a man, wants advice on how to talk to crush at a party
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Have you talked to him before?