I have been dating this guy for 3 months now and there have been say a lot of problems between us and we have broken up many times to the point break up has become a word thrown around very easily.
As the title suggests, I am not sure if we should break up or not because honestly for me it has become too much centred around the fact that we are not having sex. It is LDR and I know that we have to control ourselves too much and try harder than usual but I really want us to do it but again cannot because of the distance. I sometimes think that I might just go and cheat but don’t cause I don’t want that on my conscience.
He is a very nice guy and I have broken up relationships before because I have major commitment issues. I don’t want my commitment issues to act up and break up with him cause he genuinely cares about me.
I am in a position where I am very unsure what to do ahead in this relationship. If I break up because we are not having sex it makes me feel like a weirdo but then again I really want to and due to the Amount casuals I have had I am so much in a habit of doing it. I don’t want to hurt him, neither am I sure I want to leave him.
Any advice would be highly appreciated.
TL; DR should I break up in LDR cause I am not getting sex or stay ad it might just be a phase. Also, I get thoughts about cheating which I don’t want to do.
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I don’t think you should stick in a relationship that isn’t making you happy merely because you want to prove to yourself that you can stay in a relationship.
Just break up if you have commitment issues and sex is a big deal for you why would u do ldr? And you thought about cheating yeah leave the dude alone.