21 Male haven’t had my first sex is it ok ? Or normal ?

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21 Male haven’t had my first sex is it ok ? Or normal ?

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  1. Weird_Knowledge7178 Avatar

    It’s fine. Don’t let anyone tell you different. When the right one comes along, your first time will be awesome.

  2. the_fool82 Avatar

    Yes it is don’t worry you are green Flag

  3. CoppertoothBloodwyrm Avatar

    Totally normal. When the right one comes along make it special .

  4. SCfroglegs Avatar

    Absolutely normal.

  5. Cczaphod Avatar

    Fine. It’s not a goal in itself, finding someone with similar life goals and drive is more important than hooking up with randoms. Normal for sure.

  6. pan-fried-noodle_147 Avatar

    Society will make fun of you for not being apart of the dark side.

  7. Professional-Key5552 Avatar

    Yes and very normal too. I am F and my first time was with 23, nearly 24. One of my friends is over 30 and is still a virgin.

  8. WaldoWillwin Avatar

    Everyone’s different bro

  9. clownbaby_6nine Avatar

    It’s absolutely fine. Don’t listen to media. You are totally good 👍

  10. Lilmisscozy Avatar

    totally normal! don’t like society try to tell you otherwise. timing is everything…trust yourself!

  11. Old-Culture-7187 Avatar

    Completely normal, go at your own pace at stuff it doesn’t matter

  12. TirsoCoimbra Avatar

    Don’t worry about that. Focus on being the best version of yourself.

  13. LiterallyAzzmilk Avatar

    Wait until you’re ready

  14. ZiosCart Avatar

    better to find someone you vibe with than to lose it to someone random

  15. Cerealandcats Avatar

    Yup. Don’t feel pressured. Do it with someone you actually want to do it with. It’s much better than doing it young

  16. Wonderful-Poet-2347 Avatar

    Absolutely my friend is 21 this month and she’s not either, she doesn’t let it hold her back

  17. UkrainianKoala Avatar

    Yeah it’s okay – it’s totally normal

  18. Strict_Butterfly_392 Avatar

    Totally normal, have u considered your sexuality?
    Are u attracted to sex and want it or is it something that’s just there. If it’s something that’s just there u might be asexual or demi sexual.

    Coming from an ex sex worker who’s taken many virginitys that were between the ages of 18-40. Your still young the right person will come along. ❤️

  19. -eatshitmods Avatar

    No. There is a lot of experience you get from sex.
    Have sex soon with protection or someone who is clean as you

  20. FindomPrincess420 Avatar

    Normal! My first time I was 18

  21. zestyques0 Avatar

    I won’t until I’m married. Even if that takes decades. Doesn’t matter what others think. I’ve heard people say they regretted doing it, never regretted not doing it.

  22. Bourne069 Avatar

    Bro sex is overrated anyways. Save yourself for someone important dont just give it up because friends or social reasons. Dont feel stressed out about it. When it happens it happens.

  23. hammong Avatar

    Covering a lot of ground in your less-than-week-old Reddit account…

    It’s fine. Many people don’t have sex for the first time well into their 20s or even 30s. Just because it’s popular in culture and TV doesn’t mean everybody is doing it.

  24. shinygemm Avatar

    Nothing wrong with it at all

  25. jaseagle05 Avatar

    Bruh, I’m a guy, almost 20, and haven’t had sex yet. Its completely fine and normal.

    You wait until you find that one special person, it’s not like giving out a compliment.

  26. Key-Canary-2513 Avatar

    Totally ok. Totally normal. You do you hun. Don’t ever give into peer pressure. Take this from a 40 something year old lady <3 The world is your oyster.

  27. Equivalent-Law-2832 Avatar

    You’re okay it’s gonna happen don’t panic

  28. EruvadorTurambar Avatar

    My first time was at 21 also. I recently posted about that experience here in a thread about “first times” lol.

  29. SerentityM3ow Avatar

    Yes it’s okay and normal. You don’t need to rush into it like it’s on some checklist.

  30. Empty-Bend8992 Avatar

    i’m 23 and still a virgin, my boyfriend is nearly 24 and still a virgin. it’s very normal and don’t let anyone tell you different. everyone moves at their own pace

  31. tBesa Avatar

    i was 20 at my first time
    but i would have waited longer if i didnt have a boyfriend
    i even made him wait 2-3 months he wasnt a virgin but i was so i wanted to make sure that he‘s worth it

  32. Interesting_Ear9452 Avatar

    It’s normal. Do it with the right person when the right time comes and with someone you love. It will be worth it. Don’t mind what other people say. 

  33. dynamik_uno Avatar

    There’s nothing wrong about it.

  34. barelysaved Avatar

    I was 21 and made up for lost time fairly quickly. Though I was obsessed with the sex I wasn’t having, those barren years were all forgotten when with the right person at the right time.

  35. Ella-dreamM Avatar

    Yes, it is completely okay and normal. People have sex for the first time at all kinds of ages, some younger, some much older. There’s no “right” timeline. What matters most is that you feel ready, comfortable, and safe when you do decide to take that step, not just physically, but emotionally, too. A lot of pressure comes from society or peers, but don’t let that define your worth or confidence. Your value isn’t measured by sexual experience. You’re not behind, broken, or weird. You’re just on your own timeline and that’s perfectly fine.

  36. Hairy-Committee4248 Avatar

    Lotion will never do you wrong.