The reel was about how when the boyfriend needs help or care from the girlfriend, she gets disappointed in him instead. His problems are not listened to. I dont make efforts etc. I asked him why he liked that post. also one of my friends texted me why he had liked that post. i could see how the fact that he had liked it could be seen by other people too.
I also have a tendency to smile during arguments like a coping mechanism i cant control it.
He told me he liked it because he liked it. I asked if he could relate with it he said no he just liked it. He went on to say that I always pick up on little things and make a big issue out of those. He also asked me not to smile because he was angry.
I feel like ending things because perhaps he’s not happy with me and also because we can never communicate about our feelings properly.
tldr: my bf liked a post on Instagram that was about how he is not happy with his gf. Upon confronting him, he did not answer properly and i got mad. then he got mad. and we arent talking rn. i feel like we are unhappy and cant communicate and i feel like ending the relationship.
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So this is all over a “liked” on a post. It sounds like making something out of nothing here if there no issues in the relationship so far besides this
Can we please be honest and change the ages in this post to 13F 14M?
it could even be a miss input lol, if you are gonna break up with him over such a thing maybe you shouldnt be dating him in the first place, what a poor man…