So I was looking through my boyfriend’s phone for photos of us together to post for our 1 year anniversary. I came across some ai porn screenshots and noticed that the face looked familiar. I realized that it was me and it was on a body type that is completely different from mine. Skinny, big butt, and big boobs. It’s really made me feel insecure of my body because I don’t feel comfortable in my skin.
I scroll down more and I see a selfie image I had sent a while back of me and my little sister (19F). Except I was cut out from the photo and it was just my sister. I scroll down some more and found ai porn of my little sister which made me sick to my stomach. I immediately broke down in tears and started hitting my sleeping boyfriend. That’s my baby sister and it’s so disgusting to see those images. I’m going to confront him tomorrow, but I don’t know what to say. Please helpppp!!!!
Update: I took photos of all the evidence on my phone and permanently deleted all the photos on his phone especially the selfie photo of my little sister. I’m quietly packing up my stuff and getting ready to leave. I’m still in shock and am still comprehending everything. I guess you never really know someone….
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Gross, call the cops
ai porn he needs to be kicked out and dumped.
Block him and never talk to him again. Don’t give that man closure. He’s disgusting
That guy is gross, please get away from him. And never let your sister be around him.
Definitely a deal-breaker. I think you have to draw the line and break things off. This is just not acceptable, and it shouldn’t be in any relationship. And the only way he learns that is by losing it.
Tell him he’s creep shit and dump him. No long confrontation is needed.
Break up with him ASAP and run
Yeah…that’s not good sweetie. Definitely confront him about it. Maybe you can work things out. I don’t know. You know your relationship best.
do you live together? if not then honestly unless you can see yourself forgiving him for this and being able to move on in the future then this relationship is a dud. Regardless of how much you love him, watching porn, ai porn whatever is one thing… but putting your face on a completely different body and using your LITTLE SISTERS photos to create his fantasies is disgusting and i personally couldn’t look past or ever seeing myself forgive. If you need to have a conversation I would try to keep it simple and direct. “I saw the porn you created of my sister and myself, and I am disgusted. I can’t move past this and I’m breaking up with you.”
If you think you need answers for closure, I can almost certainly promise you it won’t help. The answer cannot be something far from “I have a porn addiction” “I just get urges” “It’s only fantasy not real” whatever he may try to say will most likely be what you already feel in your heart.
He’s gross.
I’m sorry you are in this situation. I wish you the best of luck. Protect yourself, and your sister. She shouldn’t be exploited as some sort of fantasy for your boyfriend to wank to.
Yikes 😳 This guy is a massive creep and you should think about how you’d like to end the relationship.
Please, please, please tell your parents and his parents, DO NOT GIVE HIM GRACE. expose him, that is not normal, that is very pervertic behavior, a 19 year old, that is still very much a kid idc if by law they are considered adults, 19 years old is not a grown adult.
You’ve already got enough people telling you how gross he is, but I’d also like to say hitting someone, especially a sleeping person isn’t okay for any reason.
So you hit him in his sleep
But didn’t confront him?
Story seems bs
Break up with this man right now and cut all contact with him wtf?!
I hope the story is AI too…
So I’m guessing the chances of you and ya sister teaming up to treat him with a 3 way and get that out of his system is unlikely huh .
I’m so sorry OP. He’s done this and completely ignored the reality of how violated you or your sister might feel. He might not have thought about the consequences, and it might not even have crossed his mind how invasive and hurtful this is. But if you have to explain it to him, it says a lot about his capacity for empathy. If he simply doesn’t understand how wrong this was then please please leave because you deserve someone who sees you as a real person and understands that their actions can deeply harm others.