30M F31
The other day I was supposed to go to my friend’s party. I found an excuse to ask my crush if she wanted a ride to get there together. She said she was going to the party with her own car (she had a valid and real motivation, it was not an excuse). She added our friend was maybe going to plan to meet in the late afternoon, the following day, right before the party, and I said we would have kept in touch then.
The day after, the day of the party, our girl friend texted to our group to ask if we were interested in having a walk in the exact town I had suggested my crush we could meet if she needed a lift. It’s not the typical town where we usually go out, so I thought the suggestion came from my crush. However, even after I replied that I may join (and all of the other friends declined), my crush did not reply: I wasn’t sure if she was going for a walk and that’s why I decided to decline. At the party, it turned out my crush was there for the walk. Was she taking for granted I knew she was going to be there because of our conversation the day before? Did I mess up?
TLDR: I’ve missed an opportunity to meet my crush after her very unclear invitation. What should I do now?