Noticed myself feeling strange after fiance went out for a girls night and at the end of the night shes very drunk and she says she is going back with them in their uber to the girls house.
I see I could be overthinking any concern but the concerning parts are:
– she still claims now and then that she is bi
– the girl that shes gone back to her house last time they went out the first time i was away from town for work, and she told me she slept in her bed and they had grinded together at the club
– she could have easily taken an uber home which is closer
on the opposite side
– she told me all the things
– she loves me tons
– shes never had this type of experience and i encouraged her to make girl friends
– she was drunk and didnt have a mind to get an uber home, and probably wanted to enjoy a girls night out and maintain the fun vibe
thoughts?
tldr idk if i should be feeling weird my lady had a girls night out and went back to the girls house after being drunk and going to a club
Comments
Slept in her bed and grinded in the club. Lol
I love nights out with my girls. I have a long term boyfriend and I sleep in bed with my girls and dance with them at the club. I think women just have more intimate, close friendships than men. That all sounds completely normal and like most female friendships that I know and have experienced.
Did she spend the whole night there after the club? And is the other person bi also.
If it’s yes to both above, you would have a legitimate reason for concern. I would anyway. You need to have a serious conversation W her when she comes home and discuss what actually happened.
You also need to think seriously about a partner who would rather go to someone’s house than back to the person they love….