I am 33M and wife 34F. I am tired of this life. Unfortunately, if I am not emotional I was divorced long time ago. I am dependent person. This woman does not allow me to have my own funs. Even watching movie if he does not like try to start a fight. Whatever I do she tries to make a fight and make me angry and as I am provoked very soon I become angry. This is only one of our problem. I am tired of this kind of living. She push my friends far from me I am very alone and life has nothing to me. Just go to work and earn and save which is my only motivation. I have had very good life in my childhood really missed those times!
33M 33F. 9 years of marriage no respect. Tired of this. How can I amend it or better to leave it?
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From my experience, and those arond me, as soon as she completely loses all respect for you – the relationship is over. If you stay, it will be a living hell every day.
But I hope you prove us wrong
Will only get worse.
Just divorce.
Have you communicated these feelings to your wife? Does she feel the way you think she feels? Does she feel the same? What are her feelings of shortcoming in the relationship? Are you to your wife the version of yourself you want to be to her? Have you tried to better yourself on the characteristics you can control that might be responsible for the current status of your relationship?
If you want to continue this relationship, what needs to change specifically and how? What are you willing to compromise on with your wife? And under what circumstances/conditions?
If you want a new relationship, are you certain that without change in yourself the next relationship will be better? What do you hope to gain? What do you hope remains unchanged?
I hope these questions find you the answers you seek:)