We started talking recently since I’ve been going to the office more often and I sit near him. He works for a different business group within the company. I think he’s cute too. I’m single and I have needs. He’s well put together and somewhat polished compared to my exes. Why I think he’s flirting? He tries to touch me all the time when he’s talking to me. Tries to make sexual jokes, I don’t laugh.
I don’t mind being with a married guy, polygamy is acceptable in my country.
Pursuing this would lead to complications in my life due to work drama etc. That’s why I’ve been somewhat cold towards him lately, and it makes me feel bad because I like him.
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STOP IT. Do not be the other woman and do not dip your pen in the company inkwell. Find someone available and not in your company.
Girl, there’s no question here because you know the answer.
This situation is far too complicated to be worth it. You work together, and it’ll be awkward and/or bad for your career if things end badly. Polygamy is fine, but only if his wife knows and is ok with it. Do you really want to have to figure out all these logistics, just because he’s put together?
Make things easy for yourself and look elsewhere!
Disgusting tramps get used. I hope you get what you deserve.