I don’t know what it is.
I don’t feel the urge or desire to get into relationship.
My family pushing me to find someone, but I’m thinking what is all the fuss about having to find someone and raise children.
I just can’t be asked.
I see people over the moon getting married etc and having children, but I don’t get it.
Like I’m content being single and already fulfilled.
Am I normal?
Is something wrong with me?
I see people madly in love holding hands.
I’m not disgusted by it or anything,. I just don’t feel an urge or desire.
I’m scared as I feel something is wrong with me.
I don’t think I’m Aromantic or anything because I don’t despise romance, but I don’t desire it at same time. Like I’m not obsessed or needing to find someone. I’m just soo content as a single person.
Thing is the only reason I’d get married is so I have company if I end up being alone in the future.
Anyone else feels like this?
TL;DR – Not interested in relationships.
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My husband’s sister is in her 60’s and she’s never dated at all. She has friends and owns a house. She’s just never kissed/dated/been sexually active at all. Some people are like that, I guess. You’re not alone.
Aromantic doesn’t mean you despise romance; it means you don’t experience romantic attraction or have no desire for it. There’s a wide variety of orientations people can have and you’re part of that.
To be honest the whole romantic relationship thing gets shoved down everyone’s throats and it wrecks some people’s lives. Look around this sub and you’ll see people stuck in toxic and abusive relationships, or unable to get over someone who is horrible for them. My own family keeps trying to pair me up with any living breathing man within 10 miles.