I came in here to talk about the importance of a high quality bed frame and mattress. I would also add the importance of a properly adjusted/sized office chair, especially if you work from home or spend a lot of time in front of your computer.
Over 40? It’s all worth it. A guy over 40, who’s still got a mattress on the floor and eating in his recliner with a TV tray is just pitiful. Buy classic, neutral or timeless pieces. Buy a nice mattress and bed frame. Have a place to eat dinner. You know, act like a grown up.
Anything that is between you and the floor is worth investing big money. Bed and good frame, chair, couch and a good yoga large mat to stretch at home. A good entertainment stand is a bonus, mine keeps my tv up high and able to swivel, with plenty of space for my books, games and systems
First instinct would be a bed, but it’s already been said many times so I’ll go to my second one that may not be as common:
Spend money on a good office setup. Especially if you work from home. Good feeling desk with lots of storage, an ergonomic office chair, plastic roll mats to protect your floors, ect.
A bunch of times when I feel uninspired by life I go in my office, close the door, turn on the air purifier/filter and light up a cigar with a neat scotch, and just sit in the quiet and think. It’s pretty incredible. I know this I sent in the means of everyone, but have somewhere that’s YOUR spot and pay as nicely as you can for it.
A couch long enough to lay down on, a comfy arm chair or recliner, a good mattress with a bed frame that’s not going to make a racket when you’re getting busy, and an ergonomic desk chair if you work from home or otherwise spend a lot of time at your PC
One thing to consider is how it will be used. We spent big on a family room sofa, but had two preteen boys. By the time they were full on teens, it showed its wear. I think we’d have been better off buying cheap shit from Bob’s and replacing it two-three times.
All these comments about good mattresses are reminding me I need to bump it up on my list of things to do. Our mattress sags towards the middle and I think it’s messing up my neck.
FWIW, I prefer queen over king. King size is usually too big for the room and I feel like my gf is in another zip code. I don’t want to have to call an uber to get close to her.
Bed, couch, a good table if you have room for it. IMO it gets so insanely expensive that you might want to cheap out on the table. Couch is a gamble as far as bugs, so probably not with that. As others are saying, a good bed is worth it.
I’ve been lucky in my career to be able to afford furniture that’s made of actual wood and doesn’t require assembly.
The quality of all furniture has declined significantly since 2000 (the last time I purchased high end furniture). My previous house was almost all Ethan Allen. Last year I visited Ethan Allen and was shocked at how much the quality dropped. It’s a few levels above Wayfair and IKEA now.
Spend the money on the items (and rooms) you use the most. The bedroom is priority 1. Living room priority 2.
If you have kids, just get Wayfair or IKEA stuff. We purchased fancy stuff for them and they still found a way to destroy it.
Simply the most beautiful and comfortable chair you’ll ever own. Truly a BIFL item that you’ll pass on to your kids. Worth every penny.
Similarly, the office chair version is a beautiful and comfortable addition to your home office. On days I work from home, I’m able to sit in it for hours with no discomfort.
I have to say I was apprehensive of replacing our king mattress with a memory foam, but I can’t recommend more the Sealy cocoon hybrid mattress and a thicker 12 inch profile! Absolute best night of sleep every night since I purchased it! 💤
Vintage solid wood. Even that old honey oak stuff. It’s well built and can be refinished just about into anything you want. The old mid century stuff is still really popular, though, so it’s pricy. But Amish honey oak stuff is starting to turn up in estate sales for reasonable prices – I think because the color and leg style are pretty hopelessly out of date.
Nothing made of pressboard. A couch and a TV stand. A solid dining room table.
I prefer to make my own furniture when I can, but not anything with cushioning. I’m not talented in that regard. Good thing is I know most of my shelves are what I need them to be.
Get a pc chair rated for 350+ lbs, even if you aren’t a bigger guy. They last longer and are built to be a bit more tough. Stay away from the gaming chairs as the leather rubs off so fast. Plus you will love the back support a good office chair has. Mine has a mesh back for airflow as well so you don’t get all sweaty from non breathable leathers.
A really good office chair (note: good doesn’t mean expensive, it means one that fits you and supports your back properly – I’m a little taller than average (6’1) and the lumbar support is inevitably in the wrong place so finding one that isn’t is amazing.
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Bed and mattress are 100% worth spending extra to get good quality.
A king size bed with a good quality mattress
A really good reclining chair.
Mine is electric and with usb ports.
Underestimated luxury.
A quality mattress and a quality couch. Other than that, nothing really matters
I came in here to talk about the importance of a high quality bed frame and mattress. I would also add the importance of a properly adjusted/sized office chair, especially if you work from home or spend a lot of time in front of your computer.
Over 40? It’s all worth it. A guy over 40, who’s still got a mattress on the floor and eating in his recliner with a TV tray is just pitiful. Buy classic, neutral or timeless pieces. Buy a nice mattress and bed frame. Have a place to eat dinner. You know, act like a grown up.
Anything that is between you and the floor is worth investing big money. Bed and good frame, chair, couch and a good yoga large mat to stretch at home. A good entertainment stand is a bonus, mine keeps my tv up high and able to swivel, with plenty of space for my books, games and systems
First instinct would be a bed, but it’s already been said many times so I’ll go to my second one that may not be as common:
Spend money on a good office setup. Especially if you work from home. Good feeling desk with lots of storage, an ergonomic office chair, plastic roll mats to protect your floors, ect.
A bunch of times when I feel uninspired by life I go in my office, close the door, turn on the air purifier/filter and light up a cigar with a neat scotch, and just sit in the quiet and think. It’s pretty incredible. I know this I sent in the means of everyone, but have somewhere that’s YOUR spot and pay as nicely as you can for it.
A couch long enough to lay down on, a comfy arm chair or recliner, a good mattress with a bed frame that’s not going to make a racket when you’re getting busy, and an ergonomic desk chair if you work from home or otherwise spend a lot of time at your PC
Sex chair or swing has been a solid investment.
Fire tables are the shit.
Whatever makes you happy dude. Build the life you wanna live. Fuck whatever is trendy. You’re the one who wakes up and looks at everything.
One thing to consider is how it will be used. We spent big on a family room sofa, but had two preteen boys. By the time they were full on teens, it showed its wear. I think we’d have been better off buying cheap shit from Bob’s and replacing it two-three times.
Videogame organiser.
All these comments about good mattresses are reminding me I need to bump it up on my list of things to do. Our mattress sags towards the middle and I think it’s messing up my neck.
FWIW, I prefer queen over king. King size is usually too big for the room and I feel like my gf is in another zip code. I don’t want to have to call an uber to get close to her.
Push button automatic reclining sofas are the best.
Bed, couch, a good table if you have room for it. IMO it gets so insanely expensive that you might want to cheap out on the table. Couch is a gamble as far as bugs, so probably not with that. As others are saying, a good bed is worth it.
Comfortable and supportive office chair
Whatever furniture you will use is worth it.
If you’re asking what furniture you should pay premium for, then:
Mattress
Bed
Office chair if you work from home
Whatever other furniture you will put a lot of use into.
Mattress and recliner. Don’t skimp.
Bed, tv, surround sound, chair
We got a thuma bed. It makes zero sounds. When my wife gets out of bed, it’s so solid, I can barely feel it. Would buy again.
Invest in stuff you’re going use every day. Couch, bed.
Absolutely a mattress. It’s expensive at first, but it lasts years with virtually zero maintenance.
Then a couch
I’ve been lucky in my career to be able to afford furniture that’s made of actual wood and doesn’t require assembly.
The quality of all furniture has declined significantly since 2000 (the last time I purchased high end furniture). My previous house was almost all Ethan Allen. Last year I visited Ethan Allen and was shocked at how much the quality dropped. It’s a few levels above Wayfair and IKEA now.
Spend the money on the items (and rooms) you use the most. The bedroom is priority 1. Living room priority 2.
If you have kids, just get Wayfair or IKEA stuff. We purchased fancy stuff for them and they still found a way to destroy it.
Shit did I miss when they were teaching what furniture is worth it our mandatory 40 Year Old Guy Class?
I’m only 28 but I would say invest in a good mattress, chair if you use the computer a lot, and couch.
Tall Eames Lounge Chair and Ottoman
https://www.dwr.com/living-lounge-chairs/eames-lounge-chair-and-ottoman/100077516.html?lang=en_US&sku=100077516
Simply the most beautiful and comfortable chair you’ll ever own. Truly a BIFL item that you’ll pass on to your kids. Worth every penny.
Similarly, the office chair version is a beautiful and comfortable addition to your home office. On days I work from home, I’m able to sit in it for hours with no discomfort.
https://www.dwr.com/office-chairs/eames-executive-chair/2055.html?lang=en_US&sku=8996794
A good mattress, a good chair or couch, and if you spend a lot of time at a computer, a good computer chair and desk.
this end up, and costco thomasville
A good mattress, good pillows, and a good office chair.
I have to say I was apprehensive of replacing our king mattress with a memory foam, but I can’t recommend more the Sealy cocoon hybrid mattress and a thicker 12 inch profile! Absolute best night of sleep every night since I purchased it! 💤
Vintage solid wood. Even that old honey oak stuff. It’s well built and can be refinished just about into anything you want. The old mid century stuff is still really popular, though, so it’s pricy. But Amish honey oak stuff is starting to turn up in estate sales for reasonable prices – I think because the color and leg style are pretty hopelessly out of date.
Nothing made of pressboard. A couch and a TV stand. A solid dining room table.
I prefer to make my own furniture when I can, but not anything with cushioning. I’m not talented in that regard. Good thing is I know most of my shelves are what I need them to be.
Get a pc chair rated for 350+ lbs, even if you aren’t a bigger guy. They last longer and are built to be a bit more tough. Stay away from the gaming chairs as the leather rubs off so fast. Plus you will love the back support a good office chair has. Mine has a mesh back for airflow as well so you don’t get all sweaty from non breathable leathers.
Bed / mattress. Office chair if you work from home. The quality of these can drastically change your quality of life.
My hammocks. I have back issues, and a traditional hammock is great for sleeping or sitting in.
A good bed (at any age).
A really good office chair (note: good doesn’t mean expensive, it means one that fits you and supports your back properly – I’m a little taller than average (6’1) and the lumbar support is inevitably in the wrong place so finding one that isn’t is amazing.
Beds
Shoes
tires
Recliner
Tv
Record player
Pillow
Blanket
Coffee maker
Shower head
Razor
Condoms
Cologne
These things you should not skimp out on