6.5 months pp husband hasn’t done a thing (question about post in comments)

r/

6.5 months pp husband hasn't done a thing (question about post in comments)

Comments

  1. AutoModerator Avatar

    Please do not delete your post after receiving your answer. Consider leaving it up for posterity so that other Redditors can benefit from the wisdom in this thread.

    Once your thread has run its course, instead of deleting it, you can simply type “!lock” (without the quotes) as a comment anywhere in your thread to have our Automod lock the thread. That way you won’t be bothered by anymore replies on it, but people can still read it.

    I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

  2. AceofJax89 Avatar

    I am a dad with a 10 week old. I don’t know if we have split 50:50, but I’ve certainly done a majority of the bottle washing and cooking, laundry is come and go, I do all the dishes.

    I just don’t get what leads to a man thinking the above situation is ok or desirable. Do you not what a good home life?

    So men who have known people who are like OP’s husband, what motivated them? How did they get there? What were the results long term?

    Most importantly, if you have an example of how a man changed for the better, how? Why?

  3. Bubbly_Marketing7062 Avatar

    If he’s useless, he won’t be missed. Start secretly recording interactions where he refuses to do any work and shouts at you. Don’t threaten or cue him in on your plan to leave him. Good luck! Everyone, including you, deserves to be happy.

  4. forever_erratic Avatar

    How did you not discuss this before the baby came? Anyways, we’re not your husband, so we can’t do anything.