DISCLAIMER: Im from Germany, so sorry that the language isnt the best, and also the grammar is probably wrong at some parts.
So, I (M15) am in a talking Stage with a girl from my school (F15). Ive been her Boyfriend before around 2 years ago, but that relationship failed, because I was too inactive with her, I Sometimes didnt respond for Up to 3 hours, I get it, my mistake. So now after our class Trip to England around 2 months ago, we started talking again. It was all going Well, we Met often, once in the Cinema, at my Home, at a amusement Park, she even Met my parents and I Met hers. Now that we have Holiday, she went on Holiday in croatia with her parents for 2 weeks. While she was in the Trip she obviously couldnt text as much as usual. But when she came back from the Trip and still was very passive in the Thing we had going, I got insecure and thought I Had done Something wrong, so I confronted her about it, cause she even canceled Our meet Up at her Home. She Said that shes having a rough time and doesnt really feel Like texting at the Moment, and that she needs space for herself for Like a week. She explained to me, that she once Had a Boyfriend who cheated on her or something (she doesnt really talk about it so I dont know properly) and since then she Sometimes needs space to people she Likes. So I Said that I Respect that and she can Take AS much time AS she needs. We agreed that we wont really Text over the Span of the next week, and would only interact with each other because of the streak on Snapchat and Tiktok. That was Yesterday, so today I looked at her reposts on TikTok, because I was bored since I had No one to write with. She reposted a Video that basically says, that she Likes the Idea of a relationship, but that once shes in it she feels trapped and Like she Had no freedom and that she also doenst like to Text all the time or to be touched all the time. I Respect all of that Points, and I would give her everything she wants or needs. she needs space? I’ll give her space. She is lonely lonely? She can Write/call me. How do I Tell her that though now that she doesnt want to Talk/Text with me in the next week? Would it break Our Agreement If I confronted her that I would do anything to make her Happy and that she doesnt have to anything she doesnt want to do?
TL;DR: My ex-girlfriend (F15) and I (M15) are in a talking stage again. After she returned from her vacation, she told me she’s having a hard time and needs a week of space, which I agreed to. However, she posted a TikTok saying she feels trapped in relationships. I want to let her know that I’d give her all the space she needs, but I’m afraid to break our agreement to not text for a week. Should I reach out to her now or wait?Made with Ai(because i didnt Know how to do this) (this doesnt really break It down good, i would advise to ready the whole Text)