So based on my prev posts, one might see I ranted a lot about life being harsh. I cried a lot around. Until one user told I was basically a pity animal. It hit me hard. They were right. I started focusing on myself. Stated Gyming slowly. Hobbies, travel and work. Stopped caring about instagram happy relationships.
I have great friends now. More like family. But all are committed. When they celebrate or cry they have a significant other. Whenever I see them making a decision together or giggle, I try to think “huh, this is not for me.” or ” time to hit the gym”. But then why do I still feel pain sometimes? Like something hurts. Why can I not date?
I tried dating apps. Not a single match. Maybe I am boring or my location has a bad ratio. Maybe I am not the cool hot guy. Maybe I have no experience. Single all my life. My younger cousins have multiple relationships. I am awe struck and proud of them, but why does it hurt?
How to become more cold and selectively warm?
TL;DR
How to stop thinking about dating/relationships? How to become more cold and selectively warm?
Comments
You don’t bro you just learn to live with it. You don’t make yourself cold or selective that’s just your personality
I think you should look for a therapist so you can create a strong mind on top of a strong body. This can help with the loneliness you’re experiencing and maybe you can figure out why you’ve never been able to get into a relationship.
By the way, I do think there is someone for everyone out there. You just haven’t met your person yet.