So here’s the thing, I (26F) am always into taking care of myself. I had daily skincare routine, spa treatments and that already paid off as i am doing it for years. I am working on my self-confidence as I was very insecure back then. I had laser hair treatments for my underarms and bikini already and imo, that is enough. But then one day, my boyfriend told me to get a full face laser hair treatment. I didnt get why but then he said, his family kinda teased him because i have a very slight mustache. Because of that, i really got self-conscious, been asking my friends around me if they can see a mustache on me, most of them said no. But when i now look in the mirror, I see things that i didnt notice before. Like having a veryyyyy slight mustache. The hair is super thin but then, I have mixed feelings with having full face laser treatment. I think it is a waste of money but his sudden request makes me soooo insecure and self conscious that i might as well do it.
Sorry for ranting, it’s just i got a bit offended. Cant tell anyone else tho.
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Eff his family. I would wait until the next time that you’re around them and call them out. Say something rude AF and then be like “oh sorry my mustache makes me say things I don’t mean to.”
Secondly, how DARE he? Ask him if he’ll go get a penile implant because his wiener isn’t big enough for you and then when he gets offered and butthurt, ask him how it feels.
Run, run far and fast and in a hurry away from all of these people. Remember it doesn’t matter how “kind” and “sweet” someone is “outside of this one little issue” if he can literally stomach telling you to get laser for a freaking mustache that no one else sees, he will grow more comfortable saying/asking other things that should never leave him mouth.
Is he willing to pay for it? I’d take it if he did. But then the follow up is “what’s the next issue he’s going to make out of nothing.”
You’re not a barbie doll. If what you’ve done is enough for you, it’s enough for you. End of UNNECESSARY conversation.
I would not laser remove my facial hair. I shave it every other month or so just for exfoliation/a fresh start, but that’s my own choice. No one has even noticed. Personal choice.
You are GORGEOUS and so good at self care! Give yourself some inner self care and tell his family to go f*ck themselves. Mentally, at least. They’re not worth it out loud. You’d be giving them what they want.
>his family kinda teased him because i have a very slight mustache
I’m sorry WHAT???
You are in an abusive relationship with him and his family. Nothing you do will ever be enough. They don’t like your “nationality”