Emotions are a funny thing. We all have them but we don’t all know how to manage them well. Uncontrolled emotions without strategies on how to manage them will more often than not lead to frustration and frustration without management goes to anger.
They have strong emotions when they see something sexual, even worse if they had issues with attractive women while growing up in school. They don’t know what to do with that, so they get frustrated looking for an outlet. Someone tells them those women are bad/teases/cheap, and that gives them an outlet especially because it’s a very easy answer to digest while also saving face with their own pride/dignity.
The cure for any of this are regular interactions with normal women and good friends that don’t lead you down that path. All of this gets incredibly hard to do when their support system is composed of people on social media who keep hammering that mentality in them just to make a quick buck off of merch and ads.
There are more than one type of incel and this is the minority of them. Most Incels don’t know why they can’t attract a woman or get laid and most times it’s because they aren’t very attractive, they don’t know how to hold a conversation, or they’re extremely awkward which again they usually can’t recognize.
The “women hating” ones are primarily online and they are nowhere near most of the incel population. Incel means “involuntarily celibate” not “I’m a dick to women and don’t get laid as a result”
that’s such a strange question. I’m sure I will be downvoted, but the “women are whores” is more of a saying to avoid getting your heart broken. Meaning, at some point infidelity is to be expected and you shouldn’t be shocked when it happens. Now it might not be true, but I think the point is that hurt people will expect the worst possible outcome.
Regardless, following the example above, wouldn’t you want a dog even knowing that you will have to see him/her die in your life? Nothing is permanent.
People aren’t logical. We often don’t see how beliefs and desires can contradict one another. This is true for everyone.
“Incel” is also a blanket term for a whole bunch of related behaviors which may not actually all manifest in a given individual. It’s not a cohesive, well defined ideology.
They’re mad at girls because they don’t want them, so they made themselves believe that it’s because these girls are awful people. It’s mentally easier
Its crazy to be living in 3040 and having someone come along and promote an ideology targeting the vulnerable, all while introducing new vocabulary only to be debating what that new vocabulary actually defines in 3045 as if it’s fundemntal idea was worth anything to begin with
If you think someone’s giving out free candy to everyone and you ask them for a lollipop and they say no, you might be crabby and embarrassed about it.
Silly worldview but I’d guess that’s the chain of emotional logic.
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Porn addictions.
They only have a problem with the ones who won’t give it up to them.
Emotions are a funny thing. We all have them but we don’t all know how to manage them well. Uncontrolled emotions without strategies on how to manage them will more often than not lead to frustration and frustration without management goes to anger.
They have strong emotions when they see something sexual, even worse if they had issues with attractive women while growing up in school. They don’t know what to do with that, so they get frustrated looking for an outlet. Someone tells them those women are bad/teases/cheap, and that gives them an outlet especially because it’s a very easy answer to digest while also saving face with their own pride/dignity.
The cure for any of this are regular interactions with normal women and good friends that don’t lead you down that path. All of this gets incredibly hard to do when their support system is composed of people on social media who keep hammering that mentality in them just to make a quick buck off of merch and ads.
I’m not sure it’s about being with them as much as it is having control over them.
They only hate women who know a creep when they see one.
they are misogynists and want women to be whores for only them
There are more than one type of incel and this is the minority of them. Most Incels don’t know why they can’t attract a woman or get laid and most times it’s because they aren’t very attractive, they don’t know how to hold a conversation, or they’re extremely awkward which again they usually can’t recognize.
The “women hating” ones are primarily online and they are nowhere near most of the incel population. Incel means “involuntarily celibate” not “I’m a dick to women and don’t get laid as a result”
that’s such a strange question. I’m sure I will be downvoted, but the “women are whores” is more of a saying to avoid getting your heart broken. Meaning, at some point infidelity is to be expected and you shouldn’t be shocked when it happens. Now it might not be true, but I think the point is that hurt people will expect the worst possible outcome.
Regardless, following the example above, wouldn’t you want a dog even knowing that you will have to see him/her die in your life? Nothing is permanent.
People aren’t logical. We often don’t see how beliefs and desires can contradict one another. This is true for everyone.
“Incel” is also a blanket term for a whole bunch of related behaviors which may not actually all manifest in a given individual. It’s not a cohesive, well defined ideology.
Sex? You don’t need to respect or care about someone to get want some friction.
If femcels hate men, why do they want to be sugar babies?
They’re mad at girls because they don’t want them, so they made themselves believe that it’s because these girls are awful people. It’s mentally easier
Mental illness
Its crazy to be living in 3040 and having someone come along and promote an ideology targeting the vulnerable, all while introducing new vocabulary only to be debating what that new vocabulary actually defines in 3045 as if it’s fundemntal idea was worth anything to begin with
Essentially, talking about nothing. Humans smh
We don’t think all women are whores really, where do you get that?
Incels are so weird. There was a community of them at my school. Just a bunch of losers who blame others
Because thems different type of incels. Yes, there are sub categories.
The former thinks women are whores. The latter is the literal incel who wants women but women dont want him.
Sex
Likely a third of them don’t want women. They want men, and they hate themselves so much because they are gay.
If you think someone’s giving out free candy to everyone and you ask them for a lollipop and they say no, you might be crabby and embarrassed about it.
Silly worldview but I’d guess that’s the chain of emotional logic.
Because without a woman, they can’t ever hope to have a son