Well my husband, his mom and dad flew out to see our child this week and let me tell you. You were all right, not only did his mom tell me that his current gf was draining all his money. But her son contracted several STD’s since been with GF. (Not surprised at all std epidemic in his state) she blamed me for everything, it’s your fault for wanting a divorce that’s why he’s in this mess. She was pleading that if I don’t take him back this time shes afraid he will go crazy again and try and take his life.
Because of this information, I used it to my advantage and called my lawyer, told her everything his mom said. My lawyer says we might be in the clear to fight for full custody.
Update AITAH cheating husband wanting to come back
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That’s a prompt to fight for full custody even if you don’t want to.
Just to be clear: none of this is your fault. You need to protect yourself and your child. That man is not your responsibility. Document everything for your lawyer and do as she advises. Good work.
She raised the idiot, now she wants to blame a woman because her son thinks with his hot dog instead of his big head? What a delusional old hag.
Your husband and his parents are idiots. None of this is your fault. Your child is all that matters.
“No mil, your son’s wandering penis is what caused all this pain.”
“Mom, he brought this all upon himself. He made his bed, he can lie in it”
Imagine your mom deciding to help you by telling your ex how broke you are and how many new std’s you have.
Why is you dumb ass soon to be EX husband still this that girl ? Why is that your problem ? His actions speak louder than words. He put himself in this position and keeps making bad choices. Why is that on you ? It is not.
He is getting STD from her cheating on him LMAO. He is a real dumb ass if he is spending any money on her.
You Ex mother in law is trying to put all this on you. She need to kick his ass in to shape and quit babying him. Sure you want a divorce. Why would you want his nasty STD dick back. Who knows where it’s been. Tell his mother that. Do it that crudely.
Protect you child.
Where’s your OG post?
NTA
Guess what? You are no longer related to this woman and have zero obligation to speak with her again. Block all of the (almost) former in-laws.
What is this an update to?
AITAH ex husband wanting to come back
My ex husband is wanting to come back after infidelity. We were together for 10 years and are still going through a divorce. His mother called me yesterday begging for me to take him back and that he has changed for the better.
The problem is I don’t trust his affair partner and my attorney has let me know she was stalking my socials and has made fake profiles of me before I even knew they were together. His mother has told me that she is ruining my ex husbands life. I get her fear but I also know my ex husband, he is extremely co-dependent on his mother and it’s not something that I want our child to emulate. I still love my ex husband very much but the lying and dishonesty not just to me and his child, but to his family and colleagues. He refuses to seek help and I just need to be here for me and our child. AITAH i blocked them from contacting me until I consult my lawyer and therapist.
……who in the absolute fuck tells their mother about their STDs……?
Hooray!
Congratulations, you’re doing great, keep it up 😇
If he makes a threat to you to kill himself, contact the police in his jurisdiction.
If he actually does, your child should be eligible for social security benefits.
Talk to your lawyer about how grandparents rights would work if he is deceased.
never let him step in the door unless it’s court ordered.
I would have been great if you could have gotten that conversation recorded. But, I hope you get full custody. His family sounds like a circus.
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Wow his mother is a piece of work. Good on you for not falling for their BS.
Updateme
This is why we hate boy moms.