When my girlfriend got off work I sat down with her and had a heart to heart talk. I’d say everything went well. She shared that she was starting to feel like sex was one sided, which took me off guard. I thought I was being the best I could be with what I was being presented with. Of course I apologized and we continued to talk how we could be better for each other.
Like some of you me mentioned, I asked her to be more communicative when in moment and she said she’d try to be better at that. She gets very shy in the moment, which I’ll admit I find it very adorable. But probably is a reason why she may feel like things have gotten a bit one sided.
Over the next few days I feel like our communication has soared. We’ve already had some deep talks that is only making me fall for her more. It feels like she’s being more open with me which is great. She’s happy and that’s all that really matters to me.
So in the end we are both happy and working to build a better sex life and overall a better relationship for us. Thanks to the few people that were willing to give helpful advice instead of a way out. 😀
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Nope break up with her thats a shit test/emotional abuse manipulation..
Good for you OP. People on Reddit often overreact massively. Not everything is breakup worthy.
Wants you to figure it out without her asking… WTF ? That’s some manipulative bullshit right there !
Tell her sex is a mutual participation sport !
It’s not a one way street with no street signs.
That’s a lazy assed attitude.
“Of course I apologized”
Yeah man if you want to spend the rest of your life jumping through hoops to please her…. that’s your deal.
I was with someone like this, today it’s the sex, tomorrow it’s the food, and the day after that it will be the city you live in.
And I just kept apologizing and “doing better” and apologizing and “doing better” on and on like an endless cycle. Things could only ever get so good before a new issue was brought up that would wreck that whole night.