Where are all the single men at?

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I 28f, have been putting myself out more on the weekends going to various scenes (coffee shops, bookstores, movies, outdoor areas) and I feel like I only see young guys 21ish or like mid 30s with young kids. Where are all the single men later 20s hanging out?

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  2. dec92010 Avatar

    At home lol shit is expensive

  3. 0ut_0f_st0ck Avatar

    Church, work, outdoor activities

  4. aknightwhosaysnope Avatar

    I dunno, I’m mid-40s and mostly see people my age or older. I think the late 20s guys are at work.

  5. Not_Sure__Camacho Avatar

    They’re posting on reddit asking where all the single 20~somnething women are at.

  6. Maquina90 Avatar

    We’re off on vacation.

  7. DogAlienInvisibleMan Avatar

    Once a week I sprint through downtown, if you miss your chance to talk to me you have to wait until next week. 

  8. imaDapperDanman654 Avatar

    They probably got burned one too many times and aren’t interested anymore.

  9. Scarred_wizard Avatar

    At work on workdays, hiking on Saturday, chilling at home or visiting my family on Sunday.

  10. rynslys Avatar

    The battlefield 6 open beta is live so you won’t see any for a while

  11. TheITMan52 Avatar

    At home, hustling just to survive. I’m too exhausted to date and financially things are a bit tight at the moment so I can’t afford it.

  12. Xoeder Avatar

    Gym, golf course, enjoying hobbies at home. At least, that’s my friends and I anywhere from 26 – 30 but none of us really approach woman since graduating and have dedicated ourselves to our careers and hobbies

  13. Jimbob209 Avatar

    Too busy to date. I JUST landed a job as a Systems Engineer and am going to school 3/4 time to make myself more marketable in the job force.

  14. jessi387 Avatar

    You are a symptom of a paradigm shift that has occurred post 2020. Sorry that I’m gunna sound like a conspiracy theorist, but you are one of many women who posts things like this here

    May I suggest reading this article that was written 15 years ago, which predicted this exact state of affairs.

    https://www.singularity2050.com/2010/01/the-misandry-bubble.html