I don’t know how to even write this but I just need to get it out somewhere.
I’m 20, studying fine arts in college. After my dad passed away everything at home changed. My dad’s brother who was helping us with money started showing me adult stuff and I felt so disgusted. When I told my mom she didn’t believe me.
Later he came back with someone else and they both hurt me and touched me. I cried and went to my mom again but she just told me to keep quiet because “they are helping us.” That moment broke me completely.
I left the house after that. Right now I’m just crashing with a friend sometimes but I don’t have a stable place to stay. I’m scared because I want to continue my college but I don’t even have hostel fees or anything for basic living.
I’m not asking for pity, I just need some help. If anyone knows about safe girls hostels in Hyderabad, part time jobs for students, or even any way I can manage my studies and survive, please guide me. I really don’t want to give up on my education or art, it’s the only thing keeping me going.
I know people online think posts like this are fake, but I don’t have anyone else to ask. Even advice or someone to talk to would mean a lot.
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Hello.
You are where you are, and that’s just where you have to be right now.
Take care of your survival needs first so your brain can have the energy it needs to think clearly tomorrow.
Right now you are planning for tomorrow.
Think Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs: Hunger / Thirst / Sleep / Socialization/ Reflection.
What you’ve gone through is awful, and you’re in a different space now. You’re incredible. You’ve removed yourself from an awful situation- don’t forget to thank yourself every minute of every day. You did what was best for you, and it’s the first step in the right direction / path for what’s best for you. ♥️