people asked for an update so here i am.
this morning my partner and i found out we have chlamydia and got antibiotics. my partner’s surprisingly unbothered and has helped me calm down these past few days.
i know i said i’d chew out Paige if i was positive, but now that i’ve calmed down, i see no point in it.
some told me i could sue her. i’m pretty sure i can’t cause she didn’t know when we had sex, and even if i could, it’s my senior year of college, i have other things to focus on.
in other news, Anna cut off Paige and won’t tell me why but she says it has nothing to do with me.
i’m kinda glad since Anna was our only real mutual, and Anna, her bf, me, and my partner are renting a place together soon, doing that with my ex’s friend might’ve been weird.
but i’m also honestly really worried about Paige. Anna was her last rational and dependable friend. the other ones who wanted me to help her when she “miscarried” disappear when things get hard, and def wanted me to talk to her to get her off their hands.
either way, i won’t reach out, especially since my relationship is going really well. i might ask Anna to maybe check in on her but i won’t push.
not much else to say. don’t be like me since i had the clap for 6 months and didn’t know. get tested often and use protection.
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OP, you have peace, do not contact Peige cause you will be opening the biggest pandora’s box ever
If you ask more, you’ll open more doors.
Nta
NTA.
If I had to guess, Paige wanted to talk in person so that she could tell you the truth. The lies were a manipulation tactic to try to help force that talk. Ultimately, it’s good that Anna clued you in to the real reasons, that you were able to get tested, and are getting your STI cleared. If you haven’t blocked her already, block Paige. If anyone tries to get you to remove that block, give them one chance with a polite answer that it’s not happening but if they press, they’ll get blocked too. Then follow through. In my head, it’s something like
“Paige lied about something important and I no longer want her in my life. If you can’t respect that, then I’ll have to block you too.”
Time to move on from the fiasco that is Paige.
Don’t go looking for trouble or it will find you, bigly