My BF of 8 months (22M) and I (19F) have gotten really serious and we’re a long distance relationship. I’m talking long distance, polar opposite sides of the country. I met his family, he’s meeting mine for my birthday in September, he’s been my biggest supporter. These past couple of days however I can’t get out of my head that he might be cheating on me. Last night I had a dream that he was having sex with a woman polar opposite of me and I woke up in the middle of the night crying calling him. Tonight I have a massive pit in my stomach like something is wrong. I called him and he declined it, even though he went to bed three hours prior. A few months ago in June he went through my other phone that I left at his place as well, trying to find anything that I was currently doing only to find the guys that I was talking to/dating prior to even meeting him. Not to mention also has a girl bestfriend that I don’t like that he talks to pretty often other than me and my roommate (who introduced us) and they’ve been friends since kids. He’s been moodier and more stressed, but at the same time he just switched jobs too and started school, so it could be that. He was also a virgin before we met, and I was his first. After fourth of july he wanted to abstain to get closer to God, which I’m all for, but all intimate encounters with him don’t feel the same and there’d something off too. What should I do? He has diagnosed OCD so I feel like having a conversation will flare something up.
Tl;dr boyfriend may be cheating, all gut feeling and circumstantial evidence, but idk
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You don’t need to prove it, just break up.