I don’t tell him not to drink. I ask him not to go crazy. Side note he hid drug use cocaine from me for a year. I also found him trying to get into facebook an app we delete because his ex was blowing him up on last night. And I come home after a 12hr shift as an RN. To my bed with a large pool of dark blood vomit on my floor and shit or idk blood all over the walls by my toilet in the bathroom. And i don’t even know what else yet. Yes I’ve yelled a bit/lectured. And now I can’t even talk to him cause of course he is passed out. AIO? Oh btw this is with his 16yr old child in the house he behaved this way. Possibly scaring the piss out of the kid. And yes I feel bad he heard our yelling.
Clarification ex wasn’t messaging him but was at the beginning of our relationship so he said he would delete fb.
TL;DR: bf got wasted. Ruined my clean house.