Unsure what to make of what she said? 28M 32F

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I’ve been seeing this girl for about 4-5 weeks. She recently moved to my country from the US. 5 months ago. And she’s been single for 5 months.

We’ve been going on dates and sleeping together. Generally it’s been really nice. But I didn’t really know what she wanted so we had a conversation last night.

Basically she said she really likes me, and could see this going somewhere. But isn’t ready for commitment right now. Said she hadn’t really expected this as she’s only been single for 5 months and is still navigating being in a new country. She said she doesn’t see a reason why we need to rush into making a decision or moving too fast.

She’s seems to be pretty into it. The sex is great anyway. We see eachother all the time and talk every day. But I’m confused.

I don’t really know how to take that if I’m totally honest? Finding it very confusing. Especially with how fast much we see eachother and her saying she could see it going somewhere, but also her saying she’s not ready for commitment yet.

Tl;dr been seeing a girl and had a conversation about intentions last night. Still confused.

Comments

  1. cloverthewonderkitty Avatar

    It means she would like things to stay how they are – casual and fun. Everything in her life has changed, she needs some time to get her feet under her.