I am 15 years old (female) and my closest friend almost like my sister is also 15F. We have been very close friends for 2 years, especially this year, and we were always super connected: we talked about everything, we even shared our cell phone footprint, we told each other everything and it was very natural to be affectionate with each other.
But lately I feel like she changed with me:
She responds coldly or with monosyllables, when before she was effusive and affectionate.
He removed the fingerprint from his cell phone and restricted chats, when he always told me that he had nothing to hide.
Before she told me everything, now she says things out loud like “how cool what happened with [her best friend from 16F]”, but if I ask her she tells me “it’s nothing” or “you don’t care”.
When I ask him directly what’s wrong, he tells me that I’m intense, exaggerated or dramatic.
She herself explained to me that she is tired and that is why she sometimes walks away… I understand it, but it has never been like that with me before, and it is like that every day.
With her best friend from 16F and with other of our friends she still acts normal, and that makes me feel left out.
The strange thing is that when I tell this to other people, they tell me that they don’t notice anything strange. But I read our chats and it is very clear to me that the dynamic changed a lot.
So I don’t know if I’m really being paranoid, or if our friendship is really no longer the same and I have to accept it.
What would you do in my place? Shall I confront her one last time? Do I take distance? Do I let everything cool off on its own? Or should I just accept that it won’t be like before?
TL;DR: 15F, my closest friend (15F) no longer acts like she used to with me: cold, evasive, excludes me with her best friend (16F). She says she’s tired, but it was never like that before. Am I exaggerating or has our friendship changed and I should accept it?