I have a girlfriend who I really like and appreciate and look up to in a lot of ways. We met last Christmas so we’re newish friends and she’s been really welcoming and loving and one thing about her is she absolutely loves ballet. Goes to classes and posts about it and seems to get a lot of joy out of it. I’ve told her I admire it and think that it’s a really lovely element of her personality.
Over the last few weeks over text I told her I want to sign up and asked what nights she goes and she didn’t answer the text. Weeks have gone on and I actually sent her a voice note about it asking her again and she never responded.
I don’t get it, am I crossing a line? What’s going on here?
TL;DR, my close girlfriend goes silent when I ask her about how to get started doing the hobby she loves. Confused and don’t know why this is happening.
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is it possible she thinks you won’t be accepted/that you won’t be able to do it for some reason but doesn’t want to hurt your feelings?
is she answering you if you text about other things?
It sucks she hasn’t said anything, but she may just not want you, or anyone she knows outside of the studio, there with her. She doesn’t want this to be a buddy activity. Chances are you would need to start w a beginner course anyway. If she’s been doing this a long time, you would not be at the same skill level.