5year relationship Am I M19 wrong for being incapable to go to prom with my W17 that I plan to marry and not wanting her to go by herself or a substitute from me because I feel uncomfortable with the environment that she would be surrounded by. Girls twerking shaking ass and dudes catching it and cat calling it is a high school event but she and I know as well as most others that it’s not solely just a high school event. I said that it is not a trust thing even if she were to turn down any dude or shut down everything that was happening there I simply don’t feel comfortable with her being around that or getting constantly prompted. I can see where she comes from as well which is why I said idk what decision I would make rather it be yes or no but she overlooked me being uncomfortable abt saying yes and strictly found me crazy for possibly saying no. When in reality I just want her to be able to make a sacrifice if needed for the relationship if she can’t then that just shows what has more value. I also believe to say she is the only one missing something is selfish bc I am missing the moment to be with my woman in an environment where things I don’t approve of happen and I don’t feel comfortable with it but I’m not able to be there to help deal with it. Please don’t have a bias I honestly need answers.AMITAH yes or no
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It IS a trust thing and you are very controlling. She doesn’t need your permission to go to fucking prom.