What’s the male equivalent of lingerie?

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Yeah so basically I want to know what guys can wear or do that is equivalent to women wearing lingerie or other sexual appealing stuff?

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  1. Peachily_Suns Avatar

    I like some nice silk boxers on a man.

  2. platinum92 Avatar

    This might shock you, but lingerie.

    Some companies make lacey, sheer items for men. Savage x Fenty comes to mind.

    Or you can go with the old fashioned banana hammock.

  3. Whatever-ItsFine Avatar

    a three-piece suit

  4. CapnBlargles Avatar

    Surprised no one said grey sweatpants yet

  5. mfbrucee Avatar

    Elephant Boxers

  6. NOGOODGASHOLE Avatar

    When I walk in at night wearing an unbuttoned flannel with a sweaty t shirt under, jeans, and workboots; i have been CHASED into the bedroom.

  7. clownpirate Avatar

    Schoolgirl anime graphic T with cargo shorts and fedora.

  8. Sparkly1982 Avatar

    That depends on the person they’re trying to arouse, but there are harnesses, jocks and other things that I think are mostly confined to gay guys – at least I’ve never heard of a woman going mental for a guy in a harness at any rate.

    Some guys like their guys in stockings and suspenders.

    I guess heterosexuals have their own things too but you’d have to ask one of them.

  9. Current-Nothing1803 Avatar

    Some nicely defined (not huge) muscles you can see when they move.

  10. KDTK Avatar

    As a gay man, I love seeing men in jocks and high athletic socks. 🥵

  11. NinetyFiveBulls Avatar

    For my wife it’s a muscular body

  12. EatCrud Avatar

    The Reverse Cowgirl position.

  13. woodysixer Avatar

    This question comes up all the time. The reason there is no true equivalent (in the heterosexual world) is that women are not the same type of visual creatures that men are.

    YES there are exceptions – we don’t need comments from every single one of them – but generally women find things like suits or military uniforms sexy – not for what they expose of the body, but on the personal traits they represent/imply (success, strength).

    Of course, there’s always the “gray sweatpants” thing as an exception…

  14. Dog_Baseball Avatar

    Boxer briefs and a white t shirt, except the dude tears the shirt in half with his bare hamds while walking towards the bed.

    P.s. ive done this, it’s usually gets a laugh, and it’s not really that hard to tear a t shirt.

  15. SakuraYanfuyu Avatar

    Compression shirt. Tight plain black tshirt.

    Edit: Military battlegear idk what it’s called, a bunch of little holsters and pocket things and shit.

  16. gucknbuck Avatar

    As a gay man: a lot. Wear a jock, booty shorts, a harness

  17. Chrizzee_Hood Avatar

    hmm…dick pick?

  18. enolaholmes23 Avatar

    Please god more men get into sexy outfits! There are so many options already out there, it’s just not popular yet. Dress like the guys in 300. Dress like braveheart. Dress in cutoff camo. Dress like a sexy lumberjack. Sexy cowboy. Vests. Vests. Vests. Vests are the male equivalent of a corset. Show off your arms the way women show off their legs. 

  19. skibunny1010 Avatar

    I’m prob an odd one out as a straight gal but I love seeing my partner in a jockstrap. It highlights his booty and his package and gives east access for backdoor play

  20. prodigy1367 Avatar

    Pokémon boxers, a Sonic the Hedgehog backpack, and tie dye tube socks.

    Works every time.

  21. Hoosier108 Avatar

    There’s a lot out there. Awry, xdress, bodyaware, skull & bones are all online shops you can try. Some are designed to make you look more explicitly manly (jocks, harnesses, etc) and some mimic frilly women’s lingerie. I think the assumption is that they are for men who sleep with men, but from experience there’s plenty of women who get seriously horny from their men in any of these.

  22. Covenent125 Avatar
  23. RayZzorRayy Avatar

    A tailored suit.

  24. MaggieNFredders Avatar

    Worn jeans and a grey undershirt. Swoon.

  25. RayZzorRayy Avatar

    Animal rescue work.

  26. RayZzorRayy Avatar

    A fire fighters calendar appearance with them as December.

  27. napoleon852 Avatar

    My fiance loves seeing me in a male thong. Really shows off the package without being shear.

  28. Technical_Goose_8160 Avatar

    A nice suit. I don’t get it, but girls melt a little when you put on a nice suit.

    Also, girls never believe me, but we also absolutely love when girls wear an old teddy. Every girl has some old pjs that have a few holes, a little transparent, maybe doesn’t cover everything very well and it drives us nuts. Girls don’t seem to believe me, but… 😉

  29. Swimming_Duty_1889 Avatar

    A nice ironed white t-shirt and some tighty whiteys

  30. ivyentre Avatar

    Three piece suit

  31. Mill-Work-Freedom Avatar

    A suit and a fat wallet.

  32. DeeEmm Avatar

    Boulangerie, I’m a sucker for a good pan au chocolat.

  33. arkaneindustries Avatar

    I have heard: Black dress shirt, White linen shirt, Black tightfitting Nike Pro compression shirt, full suit, calvins in Black, reverse sitting cap

  34. sasky_07 Avatar

    Rolled-up sleeves.

  35. NemericTiger Avatar

    !remindme 1 Day

  36. IamATrainwreck88 Avatar

    Brazilian boy shorts. Make your dick look nice, keep your junk in place and are equally attractive to women as they are to men.

  37. llwoops Avatar

    boxer briefs with dinosaurs on them

  38. BothSidesoftheSky Avatar

    Wife loves the “cock sock” – look it up

  39. Eis_ber Avatar

    There are male lingerie out there.

    Usually sheer shorts or jockeys, a bathrobe or something like a speedo undies. Though the selection for men is much broader when they’re gay.

  40. Brave_Quantity_5261 Avatar

    The ol’ chipendales outfit usually works. The first time you might get a laugh, but if you can really sell it then it’ll work pretty good, on a scale of Farley to Swayze.

  41. Bungeditin Avatar

    Mrs likes me in bright white CK boxers….

  42. Jordan_1424 Avatar

    My fiance loves me in some rugby shorts.

  43. TinaSumthing Avatar

    I would enjoy seeing a lot more hoochie daddy shorts

  44. FrizbeeeJon Avatar

    I do chores around the house without being asked. Turns my wife on very well.

  45. ilikemyusername1 Avatar

    Naked with black socks!

  46. jane_doeeee Avatar

    Wearing his hat backwards like a frat boy… I will not explain further lol

  47. Benevolent27 Avatar

    Black dress pants and a bow tie around the neck, shirtless. Then red thong underneath. (Like a Chippendales dancer)

    I wore this, sans red thong, and with a red bow tie, to a halloween party once. So many women wanted to take their picture with me. I’m not even ripped, though I do have nice biceps. Another halloween party, I wore a “stripper cop” outfit and I won “sexiest costume” that halloween. Lol. Note that these were parties, not foreplay, but they could definitely be used for that purpose. Cuffs, roleplaying, dancing, etc.

  48. SteelMagnolia412 Avatar

    Backwards hat while actively parenting our son. 🥵

  49. Mogwai17 Avatar

    String speedo

  50. trashl3y3 Avatar

    My husband has this niiiiice pair of see through jersey mesh tight boxers

  51. Andersum94 Avatar

    Black boxer briefs 😩

  52. Kugelfischer_47 Avatar

    A good paying job

  53. Dee0900 Avatar

    Bikini briefs?

  54. King_Of_BlackMarsh Avatar

    Lingerie if you’re not a coward/lh

  55. beattysgirl Avatar

    Any time I can see their thighs. Hoochie daddy shorts, kilt, boxer briefs, short swim trunks, you get the idea.

  56. Fair_enough88 Avatar

    It would depend on the woman.
    Women are unlike men, they are more complex to us.
    Seeing my wife in lingerie is enough for me to jump her.

    For her, it’s me doing the dishes or vacuuming the floors.
    One day, I was vacuuming under the couch and her jaw dropped when she saw me.
    She then put a movie on for our kids, tunned the volume up and dragged me into our bedroom.

    In some cases, it’s what you do, not what you wear.

  57. sciguy52 Avatar

    Different girlfriends liked different things so I guess there is not a one size fits all, pun intended. But one really liked silk boxers, another like a sort of underwear you see on strippers which I am not sure how to describe, sort of like a thong I guess, basically really small and tight. Another girlfriend wanted me to wear a tool belt. Bit off topic but was always surprised by the women I dated who were turned on by simple feats of strength, not great strength mind you. Ring the bell with the hammer thing at the carnival? Turned on. We got stuck on an icy road, she is at the wheel while I get out and push? Turned on. I understand strength being attractive but never thought such basic things would do the job. Whenever I had a girl over I should have said “make yourself comfortable, give me a second as I need to move this 200 pound box, be right back”.

  58. Intelligent_Storm744 Avatar

    Jockstraps. My wife goes crazy for them.

  59. AngelRivasxx Avatar

    Boxer briefs. Trust me.

  60. The_BmB Avatar

    My bf loves to wear Geeky boxer, sometimes it’s Deadpool, other time it’s pikachu or Grendizer. And he likes to choose his favorites when he comes to my place.

    During sexy times he likes to make dirty geek jokes with his boxers.
    Once he told me “If I’m a Saiyen, you are my Moon, when I look at you, my tail reacts”

    I love this man

  61. icedcoffeeheadass Avatar

    Short short short shorts and a cut off muscle tee

  62. Severe_Difficulty518 Avatar

    Black or dark blue silk boxers

  63. BeefBrusherBandit Avatar

    Just wear the lingerie

  64. Crypto-Coin-King Avatar

    I wear colored polyester bikini style underwear and I’ve been told it’s very sexy.

  65. Gigsey Avatar

    A well tailored suit will always have me drooling. 🤤

  66. StevInPitt Avatar

    Gay bear culture: A jockstrap.
    Het-cis culture: grey sweats
    kink culture: Lingerie

  67. anothersip Avatar

    Tighter t-shirts/tanks that show off actual body tone/definition. Same with sleep-wear pants that show off body tone. Thin fabrics. Or comfortable shorts that let your legs do the showing. Easy-access clothing, so-to-speak.

    If you’re talking about underwear – then boxer-briefs (stretchy/tight ones) can show off the goods. I mean, if you’ve got some goods to show, that is. You can walk around the house with a half-chub and boxer-briefs, maybe a tight t-shirt, to get some kind of feelings going. Or even no shirt, and some well-fitting skinnies, slightly pulled-down to show your abdomen “V”-shape. Gotta’ be in shape for that to not just be a beer-belly, though, of course.

    Some people are turned on by briefs/boxer-briefs that highlight The Bulge – if you’ve got one. So, that’s a thing, too. If you’re out of shape (particularly around the waist), then you might end up looking like Mr. Bobinsky when you rock the tight bottoms and beer-belly.

    But everyone’s turned on by different stuff. Not everyone finds a guy walking around with his junk on display as something that’s attractive. So, your mileage may vary per person and mood.

    Having pecs that stand out under your shirt/undershirt is another thing that’s usually a turn-on for some people. Like, a nice, toned + muscular physique (with the right clothing to accentuate it) is a way to feel like you’re wearing something “revealing” and feel attractive. Even without being revealing, you can “leave a bit to the imagination” if you wanna’ feel like a tease.

    Otherwise, just fuggin’ waltz around butt-naked, if you really want. Just the two of you in the house? Hop outta’ the shower and spend the rest of the night naked. That can feel risque and fun. Close the blinds. Or don’t – I don’t care.

  68. Ok_Ground_3857 Avatar

    Doing the fucking dishes

  69. morphine-me Avatar

    Being a generous provider and doing what you say you will do. Nothing hotter than that

  70. rishab006 Avatar

    A trench coat, maybe.

  71. Nightmancometh000 Avatar

    My boyfriends cardigan

  72. diablo7777 Avatar
  73. SeaworthinessVast371 Avatar

    A tool belt! (As long as he knows how to use the tools in said belt!)

  74. Porcupinehog Avatar

    They make men’s lingerie, smaller sections in most adult stores. They have some good stuff. Silk boxers also a great option

  75. ebers0 Avatar

    Just go to Amazon and search male lingerie. You find some weird shit.

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