I (25F) have been in relationship with a guy ( 26M) for 7 years now. He’s the kindest sweetest guy and takes care of me. We share the same goals and want the same kind of life. 2 days ago, he gave me his Instagram password and I read his chat with this bestfriend. He said in a voice note that he saw an extremely pretty girl in his university. He explained how pretty she was in about 5 lines. He even said that the girls in his previous class ( i used to be in his previous class)that used to look at him were pretty but this one is a lot prettier. He kept going how that girl was looking at him continuously and she even blushed when my boyfriend had an eyecontact with her. It sounded that he was happy and excited in the voicenote. Then he said that after that he didn’t look at that girl because she may think there’s something. I know he controlled himself and he decided not to cheat but still im very jealous that he found another women that pretty. Also his bestfriend sent him a half naked women’s reel and he commented “basic need” which I felt was quite disgusting. I thought so highly of him and this whole thing made me reconsider our relationship. Are all these things normal for guys? Should I breakup with him and break our relationship of 7 years for a thing like this? I’m so confused please help.
TL;DR: My boyfriend was talking about an interaction with an extremely pretty girl with his bestfriend and I’m considering breaking up.
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Yeah you should break up with him that would be the right thing to do