I’m having trouble understanding this

So I m30 have been hanging out with my best friend and his wife, his wife has a friend whois around my age and i think shes very attractive and alot of fun to be around and we get along pretty good but idk how to take it further, i also don’t live In the same city, i live about an hour and a half away. But I think she’s pretty awesome and everytime i visit we have a thing we’re i make them pizza from scratch. And we play mario party.It’s hard for me to understand that someone that cool and attractive would be into me into me. But my friends keep telling me I’m half way there and just need to have the confidence to make it happen. Idk.