I (25F) feel like I don’t deserve sexual pleasure as an overweight woman.

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Just as the title says. I am sorry is this is incoherent I am using my phone to type this out. I am overweight and I always struggle with weight issues. Try as I might I can’t seem to lose the pounds.

My weight makes me feel like I don’t deserve to feel sexual pleasure or even be in a relationship. I don’t feel like I deserve what so many people around me get to experience on a daily.

I am afraid for this feeling won’t ever go away and they’ll continue to feel bad about myself. To feel like I don’t deserve to be loved or to experience that kind of thing. I feel like I don’t deserve to be looked at in that way either like somehow I’m disgusting.

Comments

  1. jadedtheory Avatar

    So Im also overweight and I dont feel this way. Ive found men who love my body honestly. It will be hard for you to enjoy sex or relationships if you dont believe you deserve it. Good luck ❤️

  2. MikeArsenault Avatar

    Being overweight isn’t immoral, you aren’t a bad person and deserve a shot at being happy just like everyone else.

  3. Henrious Avatar

    You do, though. Many men love bigger girls. Like me. Im on the skinny side. I hope you find your fun and match <3

  4. BrookeBaranoff Avatar

    You may be depressed, you may be hanging out with the wrong people, you are probably both.  

    You need counseling.