congratulations on losing your son forever!
except he never was your son. just your victim. you’ve never met him. you’ve only known his endless lies to you and fake personality created to keep you pacified and out of his way. i know the true him better than anyone, and he’s absolutely lovely. it’s an honor to be the one person in his life to show him what true unconditional love is. it’s incredible the man he made himself to be, especially considering the horrific, disgusting, insidious abuse he endured throughout his childhood and into his adult life. your abuse was a huge part of the fire that forged him into the man he is today, the man who has stood up for himself and discarded you like trash and blocked you from ever being in his life again.
i can only imagine (and i picture it often and smile), how painfully humiliating it must be to realize none of your tactics have worked. calling our landlord, his work, showing up at his job, and going to family members and friends has only exposed you as an abuser and a fucking fool to everyone in your life. saying nasty things about me and begging him to leave me before you even met me, threatening to kill me, and spreading lies about me has had the opposite effect of what you intended – it’s only brought our relationship closer and ended your relationship with him. threatening to kill yourself, lying about cancer, lying about having Lupus? how sadly ironic for you that my REAL diagnosis proved your claims of your made up diagnosis to be completely false. your own son has secretly despised you for all of his life, but i’m proud that i was the catalyst for you to fully expose your true self and seal the deal for him.
i want to thank you for the way you treated me – you were so threatened, jealous, and obsessed with me that you couldn’t even help but expose all of your true hideousness to him and completely and utterly humiliate yourself. i’m proud that i am the perfect opposite of you: loving, truthful, strong, generous, empathetic, graceful, confident, spiritual, and beautiful inside and out. i have acted in elegance and dignity, never responding to you or stooping to your level because i am above you in every way. your abuse of me helped remind me of my real worth, and it reinforced to him how much he loves me, just how far he will go to protect my place in his life, and that i will ALWAYS be first in his heart. you tried (unintelligently and without any tact) to tear us apart, but our relationship is stronger than we could have ever dreamed because we are united against your evil.
you will never hurt him or me again. this message is really just a victory lap for me, and for him, because you lack the emotional intelligence and basic human capability to feel empathy and see anyone else as an individual with autonomy. you’re only capable of selfishness, greed, and perversion. it shows in all aspects of your personal, professional, social, romantic, and familial life. it’s really rather unbecoming, darling! you called me a fucking child, but you proved to everyone in our lives that YOU are the fucking child. you called me a fucking parasite, but by definition, YOU are the fucking parasite.
you are not a mother. you will never know love. he will now always know love because he has me.
there’s a special place in hell for child sexual abusers like you. keep swimming in your bottles of wine and falling down your front steps and you may get there soon.
justice is among you. the karmic cycle is fulfilled. truth, love, and light will always prevail.
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That was simply amazing. Very well written. Conveys very clearly your absolute contempt for this woman. I almost wish she could read it herself, but you are indeed so far above her in every way, that you’re correct in not sending it. Just typing this out must be very cathartic for you. Now you move on and heal. Wishing you and your wonderful husband all the peace and joy in the world.
Wow, this had to feel sooooooo good to write. I dream of the day my wife finally gives up hope that she can have a normal relationship with her mother. At least the kids and I are no contact. Wife sent her a text yesterday demanding accountability or their is no possibility of mending their relationship. I highly doubt she responds in an acceptable manner as she has already dug in her heels twice with lies about our last encounter to blame us (and mainly myself) for the argument that occurred. This woman is allergic to accountability and my wife is not willing to even meet with her until she owns her actions from that night and apologizes sincerely. Since she doesn’t have a sincere bone in her body I am cautiously optimistic that we are in the home stretch of never having to hear from that toxic demon again.
Congrats on your victory and for taking the high road to success. Enjoy the peace and tranquility that you deserve and have more than earned.
very well written. must’ve felt so cathartic to write it and get everything out. I see today we’ve got another mother-in-law that has lied about having cancer and this one’s also lied about having lupus. I’ll say the same thing as I my other comment, truly evil woman for lying about having cancer also about lupus too telling your family that you’ve got such horrible life-threatening diseases changes their forever and yours has done it twice ,truly horrible negative person and I’m glad your husband and you see through her and from the sounds of it he doesn’t want to have a relationship with his mother judging by the amount of hate he has for her and I’m guessing you don’t either.