I like boys. I don’t know how to speak to them. There’s this guy at my job. He works morning shift and I work the afternoon shift. He always speaks to me. I can’t tell if he’s just a nice guy or if he would be interested in me.
I want a boyfriend
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First of all…Take it easy and know him better. Try meet him outside work but without seeming a date
You don’t have to make a big move right away. Smile, joke, and chat let things grow naturally and see how he responds.
Ask to hang out if conversations go well, you can suggest grabbing coffee or lunch outside of work
First, I’ll assume you are age-appropriate for the boy and not 32 y.o. and him 16.
Males are not that difficult. And if you show self-respect (not arrogance, not even confidence) as well as a feminine behavior, we’re rather easy to move from “did not see you like that before” to “very interested”.
First, you don’t need to impress him, or show status, or skill, or anything like that. We’re not interested in that stuff, it is at best a bonus. Laugh freely when he’s jesting, show good will, put efforts, show your feminity, that you are comfortable around him.
If you want to knock it out of the park? A nice, heartfelt compliment. Especially one that has to do with his virtues. That he works to uphold. Dilligence, honesty, care, attentiveness.
Finally, drop the hankerchief, and make it as obvious as you can. Not “I’d love a boyfriend like you.”. More like “I’m a bit heartbroken you did not ask me out yet.”. NEON SIGNS.
WE. DON’T. GET. HINTS. OR. ARE. SCARED. TO. ACT. ON. THEM. ESPECIALLY. AT. WORK.
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First of all, you have to make sure his sexuality first.
Don’t go to bed with him right away. But wear nice very feminine dresses, have your hair and nails done. What really turned me on when I first met my wife was that she wore pantyhose and it was a real turn-on to rub her legs in the movie theatre. So just be friendly, nice and feminine, smile a lot and be positive.
Try do get his attention first you can talk about friendship after
It can be tricky, but just being friendly and showing interest in little ways can help you figure out if he likes you too.