So if you guys have been following my story about my MIL who fed my baby solids without me being there and took photos in breastfeeding positions with my baby, you might want to know an update! As you may know, I texted her (I did this because dont WANT to see her in person!) expressing how it was inappropriate of her to feed my son his first solids ever without me being there. She ignored me. I snooped through hubbies phone (sue me) and found this out.
As my husband has been super apologetic about the situation and knows what they did was wrong, he texted her saying that she should not ignore me and should apologize to me.
She in return freaked out at him stating that she will NEVER apologize and that I was the rude one. Apparently my text message was rude when I said this verbatim ” Ana i do not appreciate you guys giving sons name solids without me being there. That is not okay!”
So apparently in her eyes, im the rude one, she will NEVER apologize to me, and I was being ridiculous about the situation 🤣🤣🤣 wow I really hate this c*nt!
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Sounds like MiL has earned herself a little time out from spending time alone with your child until she can prove herself truly trustworthy.
Definitely needs a long time out and never have unsupervised access again
This is the evidence she knew she’s in the wrongÂ
don’t worry, i REALLY hate that cunt too. but GOOD FOR YOU! you were respectful and direct and her sorry ass cannot handle that, because she is unstable.Â
i hope your husband will continue to support and that longterm (or permanent) nc is an option. how many firsts will she steal otherwise???
Anyone who can’t keep a civil tongue in her head when texting you or talking to you doesn’t deserve to be around your baby. ever. at all.
I have to ask though if your husband knew it was that wrong and upsetting why didn’t he pick the baby up and walk away with him?
Guess she just lost grandma privileges then. Oh well.Â
Husband needs to put Mommy Dearest on a Time Out.
Time for NC. She’s batty.
This isn’t on her, it’s is literally 100% your husband’s fault. This whole situation should be a wake up call that neither one of them can be trusted with your son. I’d give her a timeout for a couple of months for robbing me, the baby’s mother of one of their firsts. If husband refuses to stand with you on this, I’d make it crystal clear that he’s put y’all’s marriage in jeopardy by choosing his mommy’s happiness over yours.
You’re trying to make it sound like your husband realizes, but in a comment just yesterday, you stated that he would withhold access to the car for you to go to the gym and other places if you tried to reduce your MIL’s weekly visits with your baby. That is not a man who realizes his mother is crossing boundaries. That is a man who is abusive. He’s controlling you and threatening to withhold access to basic needs if you don’t comply with his demands to keep mommy happy. Please understand this is not normal or healthy.
holy shit!!! That’s so bad! I can’t believe she did that!
So she doesn’t get to see the baby, right?