Me ( 23M) and my girlfriend ( 22F). we been in a relationship for like 2 years , recently she wont let me kiss her, hug her, cuddle her unless she want to, whenever i try to kiss her she should just pull away and i don’t push her to kiss me but of course i get upset but usually trying my best not to show her i am upset cuz i don’t want her to feel guilty but OF COURSE she have no problem making me feel guilty and giving me silent treatment when i mess up but when i do the same like last time when i got upset cuz she pushed my arms away when i tried to cuddle her ( again i never force her when she pushes me ) , she told me i was being child….( basically when she gives me silent treatment she calls it she is upset and its her right to be upset but when i do the same she calls it childishness LOL) anyway she apologized later. but i am posting this cuz yesterday she came and was affectionate to me and i didn’t push her like she always does…BUT later when i tried to be affectionate to her she pushed me and that is where i became very mad and upset and told her she is being unfair to me . she later apologized like so much and things are being better now she makes me be affectionate to her more but i still wanted to talk about it and get it off my chest . was i overacting for being upset with her?
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