I’m (20F) and I keep seeing people online say that guys with sisters or guys who are close to their moms are red flags. Honestly, I think that’s such a weird take.
To me, it really just depends on how someone was raised and the kind of values they grew up with, not whether they have sisters or a good bond with their mom.
My bf (20M) who I’ve been with for almost a year has an older sister and a younger sister, plus a healthy relationship with his mom, and he’s honestly the best guy I could ask for.
What do you think?
TL;DR: People say guys with sisters or close to their moms are red flags. I think it depends on upbringing.
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i do not know why people associate red flags and green flags with things like this. it depends on the person entirely.
I’ve literally never seen this online.
No, ofcourse men with sisters aren’t red flags, and if what you read online suggests otherwise it would be wise to reflect on what kind of online content you’re consuming.
People are not red (or green) flags. Red flags are indicators that someone is likely to be an unhealthy or even abusive match based on things they say or do. On its own, a person having a sibling isn’t an indicator of anything.
Where did you hear this stupid crap? Why would proximity and closeness to women make a guy a red flag? Sounds more like he would be more in tune with women and therefore a green flag.
I have always found that men with sisters tend to understand women better. Obviously that’s not strictly true but it’s not a red flag if a man has a sister.
Ive never heard that. Usually the opposite regarding sisters.
Everyone is an individual. Approach with less assumptions and expectations.