I’ve been dating this guy for about a month and we get along really well, in fact it feels like the perfect relationship for me however last night we went out drinking with a few of his friends and about 30 minutes before we were about to meet them he told me there might be drugs tonight. I am super against it and he’s known that from day 1 so i immediately asked if he would be doing any to which he replied yes. After about 20 minutes of conversation, me saying no, him saying yes we ended up no where and we went out and he did the drugs anyway. It made me feel extremely uncomfortable and now I’m contemplating calling things off, I don’t know if I’m being dramatic over something quite small or if I should stick to my guns as drugs is a big no no for me and he knew that?
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Deal breaker, be gone like the wind.
Stick to your guns. Imagine the rest of your life like this yikes. Also the potential fear of them dying in a ditch somewhere would be too much to bear.
Ghost
Byeeeee, yes. He knew what you cared about but led you on anyways. If you don’t break it off he’ll use it as permission to walk all over you.
I never tried any and never would be with someone who uses. You just have different values and it’s better to break it off after a month that waiting few months
You’re not being dramatic he clearly feels comfortable making you uncomfortable and it’s a month in. If you continue that’s not gonna change. Especially if you let it slide..
Why is this even a question? Get out of there.