I know this sounds a little stupid, right? My girlfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. We’ve established a bunch of boundaries and usually have emotional, deep conversations often to make sure we’re on the same page. I’m not saying we’re prefect, but we usually keep each other in the loop.
I have bipolar disorder. I often make sure that I let her know when I’m heading for a rut, just incase I say or do anything worrying. I also give her updates about my mental health just in case it ever gets too much for her. Recently, I’ve encouraged to return to therapy because she’s been having a lot going on that I know I can’t provide adqeuate help for. (We’re LDR, which makes things even harder).
As a result, she’s been talking with our group of friends about how she wants to approach therapy. She said she was trying to put out some ideas for things she wants to address, and brought up the possibilty of OSDD or DID. She’s never mentioned this to me.
I don’t know why I’m so upset. It’s not that I would be upset about her having OSDD or DID. It’s just that it’s a really big thing that could affect our relationship (I don’t even know how a relationship would work between multiple personalities!) I haven’t brought this up to her because I don’t know how to formulate this in a way that won’t scare her off from having these conversations.
I just don’t know how to approach this.
TL;DR: My girlfriend told our friend group that she might of OSDD or DID. She never mentioned this to me. I don’t know what to do, or how to approach this.