Me(22M) & my GF(20F) want to know how to get more comfortable around each other.

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We have been in this relationship for almost 1.5 years now, and are college going students. We, in this time , have noticed we, specially her, are often very awkward around each other, while expressing or talking about some stuff here and there. She is also not very sexually active with me, and rarely initiates sexual activity by herself. Even at times, if i ask, its here rejecting it. Also, the fact that she said she doesn’t want to have sex with me before marriage. I am not sure if she feels safe around me, or if she doesn’t trust me enough.

tl;dr: Way too much awkwardness and uncomfortable in our relationship.

Comments

  1. Alessirah Avatar

    sometimes “awkward” is just code for lack of compatibility u can’t force vibes to click if they never do