Im 22f how i survived this life , being in house where I’m constantly abused, my safety is threatend, constantly downgraded, every single sec they made me feel like I don’t belong here , and I’m someone just living off him . ( My father) He was physically abusive towards my mom and that caused her to lose her mind. He sexually assaulted me many times . I have a younger sis I’m about to move out guys don’t worry . I dated like 4 guys all cheated on me and replaced me , broke my heart. My recent ex , he broke up with me 2 months ago . I still think about him that break up almost ended me . I loved that so damn much. Did everything to make him stay but in the end he slut shamed me so bad and talked shit about me basically. I sleep at 10 am or 1 pm everyday. Sleep schedule is fked , personal hygiene is fked. I have this void in me . Whats the meaning of my life ? Have such a shitty diet from past 7 years. Idk how my body even functioning. Im not able this break this chain of bed rotting and idk what should I do to really unfk my life . Guys I’m lost af.
Idk , how did I lived and survived this much of isolation.
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Life’s a wild ride, ain’t it? Idk how I got this far either, srsly. TBH, we all just winging it. Stay strong, my dude, just keep on trucking! You’ve made it this far, after all.
I can understand your problems. I’m a 23M, and if you ever need some friendly support—someone to talk to so you can lighten your mind, discuss studies, or just share anything—you can DM me. We can be friends.
OP- there’s a glimmer of hope, in your message to the universe here- and you’re not alone I promise you that. You are allowed to have any kind of life you want, and you can create it when you’re ready and if you’re patient. you are around really selfish and sick human beings-and that is just unlucky…but it’s not personal…you don’t deserve that, it is a horrible hand you are dealt and dealing with at the moment. We are born into a set of circumstances and you are continuing to survive those circumstances. Make a private plan and Hold on to the spark that made you reach out for humanity and you’ll be okay. parent yourself- be what you need most for yourself.
Helllooo, you r 22, sooooooo young to build evvvvveeerryyythingggg again again again and again, so dont worry. You sad that you r about to moving out. You life is ahead of you. Just remember the smile.
You can build back your confidence and life, its all in the mind. Trust yourself and trust God .
Also stop thinking about the guy who slut shamed you ab focus on yourself because nobody can love you more than you.
I hope you heal
Hey, I have seen so many similar incidents and in most cases the girl has completed his studies and did something good financially to get out of this situation and had learned mental and emotional intelligence to tackle/ or simply by ignoring them during the process. Stay strong lady.
If you need friendly advice or need a relaxing talk. My Dm is open