I’m 20M. I’m an ambivert (somewhere between introvert and extrovert). I’m mostly nerdy guy, excelling in academics, interested in video games (and play them as well). I also have a good size of friend circle, somewhere between 30-35 friends (real ones). There’s this lady from my school days I found very cute. We were good friends, shared the same classes upto 6/7th standard (I don’t fully remember but I do remember she shared my class in 6th standard) and also shared seats in the school bus back in the day. I started to develop feelings for her since 8th standard but made the dumb choice to distance myself from her, because I wasn’t sure if those feelings were just some infatuation or genuine feelings. I didn’t want to hurt her by giving her false hopes. Fast forward to now, I recently found her Instagram account and followed her. She followed me back too. Haven’t talked to her much yet, but from the chats, she does seem to remember me. I’m planning to confess my feelings to her. Is it a dumb idea?
TL;DR: This stuff’s been eating on my mind all these 7/8 years. I really don’t want jokes here, just genuine advice. Please help me make the right choice.
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Wouldn’t confess feelings, would suggest hanging out and see how it goes. You’ll get a better sense of how she feels by spending time together.