Ok so back in high school these people went around lying about me tryna destroy my reputation. They’d bully me and tell my friends I’m an evil manipulator and started it all. We never spoke they just kinda chose me as a target. I didn’t speak to anyone, had no friends in school, and almost switched schools because of them. They ruined my adolescent years. But sure, HS sucks I moved on.
Recently these same people found my social media. And they’ve been texting me weird stuff. First, out of the blue, this girl asks me what drugs I do? I don’t? I don’t respond and move on. Second this other guy decides to mansplain to me how an artist I like is actually “immoral” because they wear revealing clothes. I don’t respond and move on.
Then this other guy decides to respond to my every post/story with right wing, conspiratorial and nationalist propaganda. I’d explain to him I don’t agree and in moments of frustration I triggered him back by repeating anti-nationalist talking points. I could tell he’d screenshot my texts by the wait time and his responses. Then he started posting on his story these condescending and hateful things I found to hit a little too close to home for me. (like things people would bully me for back in HS) When I asked he obviously denied it had anything to do with me. I got pissed and blocked him as soon as I could think of an excuse. And as soon as I blocked all these people my socials start glitching and doing things on its own. A while back my family got an anonymous email accusing me of being a drug dealer. I got doxxed. I can’t prove it’s them, but man, who else? Thankfully, I actually have nothing to hide, but then they resort to lying.
I just had to get this off my chest. A part of me thinks they’re still hating on me in their little group chats. Tryna find something I said out of context to justify their behavior like they used to do. Can people not grow out of being a bully or what? Like were almost 30 now. Do they have nothing better to do than bringing other people down?
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Yeah I wouldn’t downplay this to bullying. This is straight up stalker behaviour.
Depending on your income, you should see if you can go to a PI and have a chat with them about what’s happening.
Simultaneously also go talk to a lawyer.
Before you go to either, start journaling everything that’s going on. Memory tends to get fuzzy.
I’d say go to the police, but you seem to have minimal evidence and you don’t want to be the guy who’s at the station for the third time and hearing “there’s nothing we can do”.
And you should be afraid. People from highschool stalking and doxxing you at 30 is insane.