Not sure if this needs an NSFW warning..
I (14F) am noticing strange attitudes from my dad (51M), this is making me so uncomfortable and self-concious around him.
so basically, when i was four years old, our whole family took a trip to france for a week, and one night there my dad took me to the living room alone and took my virginity.
I never thought about it too deeply as it is been a decade and i also never told anyone, except recently my dad is getting very weird with me, he’s hugging me too often and gives me compliments almost as if he’s flirting with me, scared to say but i feel like he even fall out love with my mom, he always leaves her out.
he calls me hot, a “catch”, sexy and all that, it is making me feel so uneasy.
I still dont think I’m gonna tell anyone, but it really pissing me off i really hate getting attention and i cant keep doing this.
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you need to tell a trusted adult asap. i’m so sorry this is happening to you.
I’m sorry you’re going through that. I have 4 kids of my own; 2 are close to your age. While I truly believe my kids are beautiful, I’m very mindful of how I say these things. I will say that they look good today. I won’t use the term sexy to describe them. There’s a line. I’m very open with my kids and will talk about anything.
I hope things get better for you soon.
Edit: I have no idea how I managed to glance over that. Did I read right that your father had sex with you?¿
This is heartbreaking.. im so sorry. Find help. Please. Find support it is out there! Be safe!
He raped you and has a very horrid and disgusting obsession with you. Pls tell someone he needs to be in jail. If you have younger siblings or other young family members he will try to rape them too if given the chance
I don’t know what consequences you may be most concerned about, but for your own safety, you absolutely HAVE to tell someone. SA’d you at 4 years old? That’s horrible and disgusting of him. Please, please speak up and save yourself further abuse.
This is devastating and I hope you have a trusted friend or adult who you can talk to or confide in 🙁 If not, know that us strangers on the internet care about you and if you ever need someone to talk to my dms are always open! Try your best to document everything as best as you can such as the times where he is calling you hot or sexy because if you decide to report him, any evidence you can gather will go a very long way. I really hope things get better for you and you are so incredibly strong <3
The fuck?
Wtf
You need to blow the lid off of This shit. What he did was despicable and obviously he’s getting those feelings back again so it’s only a matter of time before he tries something sexual with you… it’s weird though.. I have no knowledge whatsoever about pedophilia, but I find it odd that he would have did that to you at 4 and then nothing else until now? Also, do you happen to have any siblings? It’s horrible to think, but if you do it’s possible he’s turned his sights to them possibly . Anyway.. I would 100% speak to someone about this. May be choose a guidance counselor or speak to a therapist and ask them what they think would be the best course of action. I’m not sure your relationship with your mother and dropping a bomb like that on who knows how she will react. Def. Don’t let this just keep going on though. You shouldn’t feel uncomfortable in your own home and your dad in no way should EVER do what he did and what he’s doing now
Please tell your mum. Tell someone you can trust. If anything go to the could s call them. He will do it again. Take care of yourself. Do not be alone with him at all cost
I sincerely hope this is a troll post, but on the off chance that it’s not, you absolutely need to tell your mom or another trusted adult, and report him to the police. He is disgusting and dangerous and needs to be held accountable or it’s not going to ever stop, and he could potentially even do this to someone else.
You were sexually abused and you need to tell this to a professional counselor… Your dad is a pedofile and needs to be incarcerated for his crime
Your dad is a pedophile and he raped you. Iike others have said you need to tell someone. He’s a monster who needs to be in prison.
Phone the police imediately. You’re at risk
He didn’t “take your virginity”. He raped you. You need to tell someone.