Think about the best sex you’ve ever had. What made it so great?

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Think about the best sex you’ve ever had. What made it so great?

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  1. sgt_barnes0105 Avatar

    college hookup

    he whispered the words to the filthy song that was playing from my sex playlist right into my ear while pounding me into the mattress and I think I thought about marriage in that moment…

    EDIT: okay the songs y’all are coming up with are absolutely SENDING ME TO THE FUCKING MOON LMAO. Blake, buddy, wherever you are I hope you’re doing well and your wife/SO is still getting this treatment outta you

    EDIT2: pls i appreciate the enthusiasm but my inbox abeg… y’all are some filthy mf’ers lol

  2. throw_away_hailey Avatar

    squirted it happened only once, ever since than I never squirted again, tried myself watched some videos even read some articles.. nope not happening

  3. bleached_carrot Avatar

    Cumming inside as she squirts.

  4. Redddittorio Avatar

    My wife…..she knows my username guys

  5. Big_Presentation2786 Avatar

    I put lotion in my hand

  6. yARIC009 Avatar

    Basically when little is said but we both know what to do and how each other likes it. And then enthusiasm and passion and overall just enjoyment by both with whatever happens.

  7. donttellthewife0 Avatar

    It’s not always just the sex it’s the raw passion the kissing and just feeling each other’s bodies the sex is just a part of it

  8. lucifer_s1 Avatar

    we both want it so bad.

  9. Ok_Bar_2180 Avatar

    We both (married adults in our 50s) took cannabis gummies and the sensation was out of this world.

  10. HanzerwagenV2 Avatar

    1: me and my gf came at exactly the same time

    2: my other gf wasn’t too great at blow jobs, but she never give up. So one time I was this close at cumming, but she kept changing something so I didn’t get there. Edging like 2-3 minutes and then I came. So my best orgasm was pretty much during a quite mediocre blowjob.

  11. NepNeppyNep Avatar

    I think the best sex is because it’s with the person I love the most. Every sex with the person I love is the best.

  12. NerdySlumberjack Avatar

    Orgasm without physical having my guy touched

  13. Outdoorsy-howitzer Avatar

    The eye contact. Just looking into my girl’s beautiful eyes. Feeling her entire body. Her scent, her taste. And whispering sweet nothings in her ear as I feel all of her. Best everytime.

  14. veggie_kebab22 Avatar

    We laughed the whole time. We were trying new things. It was approximate but it made us laugh.
    Nothing was serious

  15. Johnny_Five_Is_Dead Avatar

    She made me believe that she was really into it. Not saying she wasn’t, just saying I didn’t doubt it at all. 

  16. JediOrDie Avatar

    The best sex was just someone I loved and loved me back. The sex was kinda building all night, and we both knew it would happen but we couldn’t wait to rip each other’s clothes off.

    So my answer is love and passion.

  17. Grateful_Tread_WDN Avatar

    I hate admitting this, lol. But for the sake of science.

    I was mad at him and overreacting. I can be self-conscious, and selfsabotage relationships.

    He lectured me in a low, gravelly voice about doubting myself while spanking me and pounding me within an inch of my life to make his point.

    I was a mess lol

  18. MonsterIslandMed Avatar

    I remember working out on a microdose and afterwards went to this girls house where she cooked me food and I got to shower. Then we had sex, smoked a joint and had sex again and it lasted awhile and both of our legs were like shaking afterwards.

    Was incredibly awkward tho where I felt like we made love and it was one of those relationships that was more like a fuck buddy then anything

  19. bryancp87 Avatar

    Felt wanted and desired

  20. Jackstract Avatar

    Pros:

    • One of the most attractive people I’ve ever seen
    • She was real into it

    Cons:

    • I can only remember like 10 second of it…

    Damn you alcohol xD

  21. disclosingNina--1876 Avatar

    OMG, he was my sex soulmate. Our bodies just loved to please one another.

  22. Wild_Guard_5729 Avatar

    It was with my Bumble match. He was incredibly passionate and attentive. Foreplay was the key. Everything flowed so smoothly. A long, unhurried make-out session, all that touching without even needing to be naked… phew! One of those times when you completely lose track of time

  23. Human_After Avatar

    She licked my b hole, and she liked it!?

  24. JoeMamma_94 Avatar

    This sub is so horny

  25. Maleficent_Seat7850 Avatar

    Literally last Saturday with my wife after we went out to dinner. The next best time was a month and a half ago with my wife and I went out to dinner. Last weekend was fucking bonkers. I came twice. She must’ve cum for 25 minutes straight. The sex is literally getting better and better after 6 years together.

  26. Fine-Independence976 Avatar

    I think… I never had good sex :/

  27. GenitalCommericals Avatar

    It’s in the moment really, but it’s when both people very passionately want to be with each other. There are several instances with different women I could call “the best sex I ever had” and each of them were amazing moments for different reasons but the one constant was both of us were VERY excited to finally get our hands on one another.

    When both partners are REALLY excited and focused on each other it’s the most memorable sex for sure.

  28. kitpoetry1 Avatar

    He ate me out like he was starving and made me orgasm till I couldn’t breathe. THEN we had sex.
    What made it amazing was also that he was vocal. He told me what he liked, what he wanted and I knew what gave him pleasure as well. It helps not to second guess yourself.

  29. Johanneum1906 Avatar

    Last one-night stand I had.

    Sex was so good that he stayed until mid-afternoon, we went out on a real date two evenings later, and he basically never left. Currently married for 6 very happy years and expecting our first baby 🙂

  30. AddictedToMosh161 Avatar

    That she was really into it and made me aware off it. The difference between “fine, lets do it” and “I want you now!” is way bigger than you think and its soooo important.

  31. tinyhorsesinmytea Avatar

    I wanted her since we were in high school. Took me until we were 31. That’s a lot of anticipation. And she was wild and fun.

  32. nakfoor Avatar

    Smoked a lot of weed before. Makes all the sensations much more intense.

  33. ben_od1 Avatar

    With my wife, not just one time but dozens where it was just phenomenal and she came her brains out many times. She is so beautiful and I love her so much it makes it that much better when it’s good.

  34. VegetableHuman6316 Avatar

    Arguably my best fuck friend, she was petite, pale and had the fattest ass I’ve ever had to date, our sex was always good but one night in particular was next level, she was riding me & we were in sync, when I thrusted up she threw it down, when she went up I went down, felt amazing

  35. Loreric Avatar

    Emotional intimacy.
    I felt so safe with her.
    The risk of getting caught.
    The place, we felt like it was our own.
    We laughed so, so much before during and after.
    The music: loud Led Zeppelin through the speakers.
    She was absolutely gorgeous, one of the most beautiful girls I’d seen.
    Legs shaking, head on my chest, cuddles afterwards.

    God I miss her

  36. Big-Routine222 Avatar

    She seemed to think that sex with me might find the cure for cancer and gave me oral sex as though my sperm might make her 10 years younger.

  37. JosephMack99 Avatar

    First time doing anal with her. Was a new experience for me and I was moaning involuntarily and I came so hard. I was mindblown.

  38. JetFueI Avatar

    This is gonna sound insane but it’s only happened with one person. It felt like we became one person and when I closed my eyes I could see galaxies and stars. I was sober. Unexplainable feeling.

  39. Direct-Ad2561 Avatar

    He had a dick that curved upwards

  40. skylinenick Avatar

    I was 17, hanging on the couch in the living room of my gf’s parents. She was great – beautiful, fun, loved sex. We had great physical chemistry, and had been friends with benefits for a long while prior.

    Anyway, her parents called, said they would be home in ten minutes. She hung up and turned to me with that little mischievous glint in her eye.

    She climbed on top of me, rode me until she came (only girl I’ve ever dated who came easily from penetrative sex), then hopped off and begged/sucked until she swallowed. We also skipped the condom in the heat of the moment (kids, don’t do this, we got lucky but was a terrible idea) so that added some intensity.

    We beat her parents by about 90 seconds.

    I’ll never relive that high, for multiple reasons. Great sex life now with a loving wife and plenty of great experiences, but that one?
    Yeah. Buddy. Wow

  41. sus10Ns Avatar

    She was enthusiastic, moaning loudly, very wet, her feet were trembling, and she made me feel like I was the world to her.

  42. Bouksie Avatar

    She had massive tits. And she sucked like a Hoover vacuum

  43. xternalSnow-7 Avatar

    it was about who she was in my life, she was my best friend in high school, it was a long drawn out, will it happen or not kinda thing. she had an attractive body type even more, but when i got her clothes off it was like a fantasy came to life, 4 days in a hotel, everything was perfect. 

  44. ThadisJones Avatar

    Probably that it was the first time we’d been with each other after being separated for six months, after we’d spent more or less the previous year living together. She was moving into a new place to start grad school and the first thing that we did was assemble her IKEA bed frame so we could have a bed. Props to IKEA for making directions that are really easy to figure out even when you’re super horny and also their beds are good to have really intense sex on immediately after that.

  45. Eggmarine Avatar

    Best sex ever was with an ex, she was 10 years older and had come out of a sexless relationship. I was young and full of erm… Energy and i loved her very much.

    She was emotionally a bit unavailable so the relationship had an on-off dynamic which was painful but it made the sex wild, really erotic with amazing intimacy.

    The best time was after a night out, we had argued and we wanted to make up. I was always really tuned into her orgasm so with some communication i could edge her, and this time we just edged each other in missionary for hours it was frigging unbelievable. When we finally came it was too much, we cried and hugged and slept for the rest of the day. It was really hot sex but the emotional closeness was off the scale.

    10/10 best shag ever.

  46. GLaDOs18 Avatar

    Hooked up with this hot bearded older man who gave me a hand necklace while he whispered in my ear that he wanted to get me pregnant.

    He lives in my head rent-free to this day and that was nearly 6 years ago.

  47. Forbidden_Donut503 Avatar

    First time my wife and I had really passionate and dirty stoned sex.

    Weed makes sex more intense and more zen at the same time. Ain’t no sex like weed sex. It’s absolutely incredible.

  48. SlowTomatillo2794 Avatar

    Post break up sex with my ex was so good. It was literally rage from both. The scratching, slapping, verbal degradation. She actually asked me to finish in her and I didn’t, said u don’t deserve it and she leg locked me.

  49. 5easonalDepre55ion Avatar

    Enthusiasm. Throughout.

    She gave me a bj to start that was like… that viral “Hawk Tuah” girl mixed with, like, energy and… deep-throating and choking sounds and just… I don’t know… “vigor.”

    I was nearly done right then and there, but I managed to redirect and lay her down. I was kind of hovering over her in a kind of push-up position and kissing her, when she grabbed me, put me inside her and somehow scooched down and just… pushed toward me… pressing into me and taking me deep.

    A couple of strokes later and I almost panicked. It was too good! I had to stop for a second to calm my breathing or it was gonna be over. I pulled out and, when I did, she looked at me and whispered “come baaaaaack,” and that, again, was almost enough to finish me but I somehow managed to take a deep breath and go on with it.

    We stayed in missionary for a bit and then she pushed me back and I laid down. She climbed on and started grinding. Rolling her hips around in a kind of circular motion on top of me.

    She had these mirrored closet doors and I remember her looking over and watching herself as she straddled me and she was, like, running her hands through her hair and I remember thinking that was hot as fuck.

    I finished not long after that. Oh, and we were fairly new in the relationship, but she was on the pill so this was raw and goddamned fantastic.

  50. HeatSeekingGhostOSex Avatar

    Meth. I came so hard my vision was fucked up for like 15 minutes in ways that are difficult to convey if it’s never happened to you.

  51. Ayyshawty7 Avatar

    That one night, me and my girlfriend were both completely drained. We still had sex, but it was… average. Just two tired bodies giving what they could. Nothing special.

    But when the morning came around 6 a.m everything changed. I pulled her close, and she hugged me so tightly it felt like she was scared I’d vanish. That hug turned into slow, desperate kisses. Lips, neck, everywhere. We kissed until we were breathless, whispering in between like the world outside didn’t exist.

    Then she started rubbing me through my shorts, almost frantically, like she couldn’t stop herself. I slipped her panties off, slid inside her, and in that moment something snapped we weren’t just having sex, we were completely consumed by each other. She was rubbing her clit, moaning, and I was moving with every bit of passion in me.

    It felt unreal messy, intense, cinematic. The kind of sex where time doesn’t exist, where your whole body feels like it’s burning. When it was over, we both knew it instantly: this was the best sex we’ve ever had.

  52. goodDamneDit Avatar

    She told me she liked it rough and wanted to be degraded and I could do whatever I want until she said “Stop”.

    I never did this before, and realised immediately that this was something I didn’t know I was craving. Turned out I was a natural and she could really take anything I threw at her, figurately and sometimes literally. She never said “Stop” but admitted a few times that she was on the edge.

    It was like we simply were made to have sex with each other. It became a four year relationship. The first six months I only recollect as a looooong sex dream. It was awesome and unmatched since we split up.

  53. Apprehensive_Book520 Avatar

    Pretty sure she was a Russian asset… and she was incredible. OMG y’all don’t even know

  54. CatabolicBodybuilder Avatar

    Sex with Love, that shit hits different. You’re all over each other, becoming one, wrapped up in our arms, legs tangled, body pressed together, long deep strokes, messy kissing. There’s nothing like that kind of sex. Casual just doesnt do it for me after I experienced that.

  55. kremitthefrog38 Avatar

    The connection. There’s a huge difference between sex and making love.

  56. throwRAha9zqx Avatar

    She aggressively pursued it. I didn’t know her very well but I knew she was BFFs with a close friend of mine and it concerned me. But she pursued hard and then she wanted me to “use” her. We had sex 8 times, never went to sleep. It was the next day and the spirit was willing but the body was spent. She kept insisting we go again and I was not having it because my dick hurt, but she kept taking my clothes off so I grabbed a couple neckties from my closet and tied her wrists and ankles and then hung her tied up wrists on this clothes hook I had mounted to the wall just so she couldn’t get handsy anymore. I did not plan well…She was on her knees and wrists bound to the wall and she looked up and me seductively, opened her mouth wide and stuck out her tongue and just waited.

    I guess technically we did it for the 9th time in a row? Though that was more just having her constrict her throat around me.

    I’m not sure how it was possible given how spent I was and sore my dick already was at the time but it was the most intense orgasm I ever had and the amount of cum that came out was something I’ve only repeated two other times.

    Sadly the two of us were not compatible in other ways that mattered but we were absolutely sexually compatible. To an unhealthy degree. Almost got arrested later because of our sexcapades.

    I am happily married to someone else and we have a great sex life so zero regrets, but I don’t think I’ll ever have sex like that again. It was a combo of being in my 20s and having unlimited energy, and not-slightly/-swollen-prostate, and not feeling a responsibility or emotional connection to the woman so I didn’t care about degrading her, and she seemed to love being degraded, just all that can never happen again. Even if my wife asked for something like that to happen, I’m not sure I could bring myself to do it. Emotionally, or with my current stamina. And I definitely couldn’t produce that much semen anymore.

    Somewhere I read that if you take testosterone supplements you can get back to how it was in your 20s but the risk of hair loss, ball loss, etc seems too great.

  57. thatmitchkid Avatar

    She came from…everything, repeatedly. She probably averaged 15x/session & could turn one orgasm into another if I kept going. I’m not that good, she was just wired that way, said it happened with everyone.

    As a guy probably too preoccupied with making sure she has a good time, it was nice to turn my brain off & go fully primal. She enjoyed everything I did & whenever I was ready, she’d had plenty of Os so I just came.

  58. DaneWild20 Avatar

    Early 20s, we started kissing and getting naked, all fairly standard, then he pushed me down to the floor. Hard to explain, but he turned me around, held my head down and fucked me from behind, using his body to pin me. I had never had this type of sex before. Getting dominated.

    It lit a fire in my brain, and I remember thinking I really really like this, what a turn on. He said sorry after because I guess we hadn’t talked about having that kind of sex, but it was unreal. That’s the night I discovered what I really like in bed.

  59. Witty-Pepper7836 Avatar

    after a 4th of july event. he was all over me and while he was fucking me, kept whispering over and over how good and sexy i looked all night. just a bit of praise and i melt like butter

  60. exportpdf Avatar

    Last year, I had been talking to this guy off a dating app for a few weeks. When my birthday came around, he came over. He made me squirt for the first time. He also used my full length mirror as a prop to show me what he was doing to me, and was vocal about how sexy I looked while he did it. It was the most athletic sex of my entire life – my core, quads and hamstrings were sore the next day.

    I think about him all the time and would answer in a HEARTBEAT if he called.

  61. Ashmonater Avatar

    This woman was 15 years my senior but she had insane awareness and control of her vagina muscles. I swear it would change shape. She could cum more times than she could count, pulsing the whole time, and usually at the end she’d have a huge body shaking, can’t talk, just holding her quietly for a while after kind of orgasm. Her enthusiasm and control were enough but she could very easily tell when I was close and would get excited to watch me get there. Usually she’d come with me. One time I swear we were communicating with primal grunts to the point we were almost singing and the harmony/resonance in our chests went down into our genitals and it was like both of our bodies had an extra vibration. It truly felt magical like she was not of this world and I had encountered one of the fae or some deity. If she is a deity though she’d probably be from the greek pantheon because, despite her skills, she was a lil batshit and turned on me for made up reasons. I think she wanted the fight and to argue and have make up sex but she was accusing me over text and being really mean and immature so I cut it short.

    I don’t miss her… I miss the sex… it is weird.

    What made it so great? Long story short: experience. And experience on both sides. She knew what she wanted. I wanted to make her feel as good as possible. Apparently, not many men give a shit about that. She was surprised I wanted to kiss and make out. She was surprised by cuddles afterwords. She was surprised by me going down on her. Those three things alone I think made her feel so safe she once came just from me breathing heavily on her back. We both experienced childhood trauma and each lived through enough to know that life is too short not to share joy when we feel it so that helped.

  62. suspiciouspanda44 Avatar

    When the man makes noises!! Plsss don’t be silent, I wanna hear those moans and whimpers 😂😂

  63. darkwing--duck Avatar

    I had the best connection I’ve ever had with the worst person I’ve ever loved. We were great in bed but miserable and mean to each other outside of it

  64. Outside-Sleep3111 Avatar

    He made love selflessly. His goal was to please me even when I pleased him he would please me more.

  65. sojourncouple Avatar

    We redid my job interview the way I wanted it to go😮‍💨🫠🤤…..filling out a proper application while bent over his desk was 🤯🥵🤷🏼‍♀️

  66. Ok-Alps-183 Avatar

    With a woman instead of a man. Turns out, sleeping with someone of your preferred sex just makes it better by default.

  67. ass-to-trout12 Avatar

    She didnt have a perfect body but she behaved like she did. Im attracted to chubby girls. Im super into that body type but women who have it are often insecure about themselves. She had zero insecurity. She was so confident in herself. She was so enthusiastically into me. She had no issue communicating what she wanted to do and have done to her. She had no gag reflex either but that is secondary to all the other stuff. God she was awesome. So fucking sexy

  68. RampagingBadgers Avatar

    She was out of my league. Like… hilariously out of my league.

  69. Yoda2000675 Avatar

    I fucked her as hard as I could for as long as I could, and she gave that energy right back at me. It was very animalistic and we were both exhausted afterwards. It went on for over an hour of heavy exertion.

  70. arcanegolden Avatar

    He answered the door completely naked, picked me up, ripped off my tights while carrying me, then lifted me above his head and ate me out while carrying me around his place…
    I had no walls, no ceiling, nothing to hold onto
    Eventually he laid me down on his bed and fucked me over and over for hours, with a couple naps in between.
    The entire time he made it about pleasuring me, which I know turned him on equally.

  71. Antique_Run_7674 Avatar

    I’m 70 years old and STILL having the best s*x of my life 💖