I don’t get it. Why? It’s been over 8 months since we lost contact we don’t talk anymore, I don’t even know what he looks like now, I barely know anything about him. We only talked for 3 months, and then boom everything just ended.
I don’t know why I still like him, or why I still miss him. I avoid other guys, and I can’t move on. Why? It’s so frustrating. I miss him, and I randomly cry about him even though he made it clear he doesn’t want me.
I shouldn’t be this bothered by a guy I only knew for 3 months, and who’s not even in my life anymore. But I still fantasize about him. I still hold onto hope.
I consider him a really memorable part of my life. I’ve written poems about him, even a story. A whole song dedicated to him. Am I crazy? I know it sounds crazy, but I couldn’t help it… I know it might sound stupid to some people, but I can’t help feeling jealous that I’m not the one he loves… But at the same time i want him to be happy and get all the love and care he deserves.. So i let him be with her, my poki suffers alot or maybe thats how he used to potray himself. We are no more in contact, idk where he is now..
Moving on is never hard for me. I remember breaking up with my ex bf of 2.5 yrs; I didn’t feel the same way about him. I moved on in just 4 months. I don’t know why I can’t do it now.
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