TL;DR: should I tell my husband about my crush…
As the title says, I am 27f and am married to 26m. We have been married for a year but together for a bit over 3 years. He is wonderful. He love me so much. He is kind and sweet and truly a great person. Our relationship is very strong and we are usually great communicators as we have been long distance for most of our relationship. This all being said, I never told him that I was bi because well… I didn’t really know. I always found women beautiful and charming but it kind of stopped at that. I have been a fierce advocate for the LGBTQI* community so maybe the closet was glass but I still never really understood this part of myself until a few months ago.
Now here I am, married and I have a massive crush on this women I play soccer with. Like I catch myself doing double takes constantly and finding excuses to be near her and talk to her. I am sure this is a fleeting crush as many people have but it was made me question my identity. Should I tell my husband that I’m Bi? Should I tell him about this crush? I am worried if I tell him about the crush I will hurt this feelings. He is SO supportive and always wants the best for me but if I tell him I have butterflies for someone else I think it will crush him.