DAE struggle is social situations where your friends/coworkers pick on you in a friendly way and you don’t know what to say back?

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Almost my entire life I’ve been in situations where my best friends will poke fun at eachother in a friendly way, and if they do it to me I just don’t know what to say about but just laugh it off. But I’ve had ppl tell me they think it’s weird that I just laugh it off and “don’t fight back” but like…idk what to say, I’ve tried and this has happened with every single friend group I’ve had since I was a kid, and even coworkers too. They all joke around and pick on eachother and when they pick on me like 10% of the time I can think of a comeback but other than that I just like laugh it off or stay quiet. I feel like everyone else is so much better in these social situations and idk what to do to fix this.